This girl...

elk.

elk.

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so theres this girl that i have liked for awhile now and when i say awhile i mean it and i dont really know wtfs going on.. She always goes to partys and hooks up with random dudes and like says it wont happen again blah blah. but then she does and im just like wtf gay. i mean im the nicest person in the world to her i see her everyday i do anything she wants me to do for her , go to her soccer games in the fucking freezing cold when theyre team sucks man dick and she still doesnt even show acknowledgement for me. I know most girls would respect this kind of attitude from a male but not her towards me for some reason? ive literally done everything right but just cant get it ns... what the fuck do i do
 
just act like all those guys she hooks up with, chances are they arent nice to her like you are. as ferris bueller once said, you cant respect someone that kisses your ass
 
Tell her how you feel. Then ignore her, make yourself a star at school yow. Be the big man on campus, be confident always. Dont do shit for her. She'll miss it, want it back. Dont disrespect her, but make her earn your respect. You've chased her for long enough, now let her try and work hard for you. And remember once you get her "treat em mean, keep em keen"!
 
haha maybe have her help you pick out a new icon.....
no but seriously if you're putting forth that much effort and she won't acknowledge it and she still hooks up with random guys it's time to move on, she's clearly taking advantage of you and she doesn't see that it's like insane caring for a guy to do as much as you do for a girl. if she can't figure that out/return the favor somehow then ditch her
 
your problem is that you think doing whatever she wants you to do will help you get her. act like you have better things to do and the ladies will like it. but she sounds like a bitch anyways
 
she is a jerk thats actually happening to me right know too i feel ur pain. girls like that are just bitches
 
I'm sorry, but you have fallen into the trap of being an intellectual whore. Next the bitch and move on.
And try Ladies Men next time.
 
Yeah, you should have done the opposite of what you explained to us. I hate to say it but you,dear sir, are friend-whipped.

and oh yeah. move on to the next one. i think you already blew it. or you could just start ignoring her and see if she comes running back.
 
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Ha.
Seriously, move on. If you are that close to her, like her, and she hasn't reciprocated the feelings you are only going to get hurt. Get her out of your life, or just realize that it can't work and find another girl to like.
 
o my bad i thought you were togehter...like said above, your friend whipped, stopped doing anything for her and throw it back in her face
 
ok so i did the responsible thing and made the bitch cry. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH CHICKS
 
The responsible thing? Wow, you really do need some help. The problem is not with the chick, all of them are like that. The problem is with you. Moving on from a girl should never make her cry. It should seem like something that was no ones fault, you just grew apart. The confrontational next makes an enemy out of you.
 
DUDE FUCK YOU!... I bought this bitch dinner at chilis and then she sucked my friends dick? are you fucking serious !
 
i know how u feel man! thats kinda how i was amonth ago about some chick but less intense..

but yea u just gotta move on and be friends with her
 
Youre an asshole dude, she wasn't with you, you didn't make a move on her and expected her to be all lovey dovey because you treated her to dinner?

she probably saw you as a friend and didnt want to hurt you my right out rejecting you. time to grow up man.
 
well, are you dating her?
i bought my friend lunch a couple times, im not expecting her to be devoted to me or anything.
 
lovin the siggy mayn
but yes like i said beforetreat her like shit!if your like 13 which it sounds like you are this works without fail
or get summa that chocolate axe shit bro shits BOMB
 
"Good things come to those that wait"

I'm in the same situation right now. She'll come to terms it just takes time. I'm waiting on a girl with a boyfriend right now, and their relationship is finally getting sketchy. Be there for her in hard times, she'll notice and be ready when she's ready.
 
ignore her until she realizes just how badly she fucked up. if she doesn't end up caring, then you made the right move anyway. i recently employed this tactic and found out that the girl never gave a fuck in the first place and just used me. its a shitty thing to find out, but it feels good to sever every tie you had with a person like that.
 
STORY OF MY LIFE

no joke, thats the exact same situation as me, but she plays field hockey, and just flirts a lot, so theyre pretty similar situations
 
I apologize to newschoolers. I left my ns up while i was out of the house and my little broski came on here and fucked around just disreguard any of this or messages etc. that he sent. thanks
 
What's with the hate? You handled the situation badly, I was explaining how and what you should have done. http://www.laddertheory.com/ Read that if you want a pretty accurate summation of what is happening to you right now. You are showing all the signs of an intellectual whore. That is not a fun position to be in, I'm trying to help get you out of it.
 
hahaha Ive used that excuse alot. But truthfully, I just say shit thats on my mind, fuck around with everyone on here and shit talk aLOT. But I always feel bad about it after and make sure I give Karma points to those Ive hurt.
So dont make up excuses. Just give out mad karma. Its not like the economy where the more money there is out there the less its worth, Karma is fixed. Mods, how much Karma is too much karma? Do y'all have a limit to how much Karma is floating around on NS at once? Does Karma grow on trees? Have you ever lost all your Karma pissing it away at the track? Whos got the most Karma, lets sex them?

 
guys play at least a little hard to get because when girls realize you will do anything for them unless you're already going out either 2 things will happen: 1. she will make you her bitch 2. she will just try to get rid of you. so yes please girls but also give them some space and only do this at the right time, not all the time. If you chill with her for a bit and then can't see her for a bit it will make you want to see you more (if she likes you) because she will want more of you. hope i helped!!

and yes ladies men is the way to go for this stuff.
 
sounds like you have been put into the friends zone

i feel bad for you dude

i have a friend that is just like that and its so annoying... i feel so bad for the dude because he is so nice to her and she knows he likes her

she said that she was just going to get her "fill" of him and move on

what i think you should do is actually talk to her about it and make her give you an answer to your questions

its really the only way you are going to find out if anything is going to happen

and if not you can work on moving on and i know how hard that is but its really not worth beating yourself over a girl that doesn't like you back

in my opinion its just going to get worse if you don't sit down and talk to her
 
If you haven't told her you like her then do so. If she says that she likes you back then ask the question if she says she doesnt then ask if you can have a bj. If she says no then tell her to get out of the car because her pussy stank.

Ask her if she likes you though and if she says no then move on. Its not worth it. And I dont know why girls like asshole guys, you would think they would want to be around somebody who respects them and cares for them rather then someone who just wants to get their dick wet.
 
She's gonna go around fucking hellla dudes before she realizes she should have stuck with you (the nice guy) all along then she will come crying to you and beg for you back but by then she'll have all kinds of nasty STDs so really you should just man up
 
you sound like the biggest bitch ever. "ooh my gawd she wont pay attention to me but fucks all these other dudes!!!" seriously man, grow the fuck up, man up, and move on. who cares what you did with her cause it doesnt mount up to your dick in her vagina like the 10 other guys that have. she aint worth it you fucking pussy so find some sea hog and inject your man juice in her. its life pussy, get used to it.
 
yeah nice guy always finish last, youll find someone who appreciates what you have to offer, just move on man
 
girls like confidence. whip out your dick in public and say "VOILA!"

but no really, ditch this broad, and get somebody on your level because shes obviously a slut, you need someone else if thats how you treat girls. how old are you anyways? im guessing 14 or 15...? if so punch yourself for taking relationships so seriously. live your life, bang as many girls as you can, do whatever the fuck you want until you really find the time to settle down and have a girl. girlfriends get pretty annoying anyways, idk why you would want to deal with such nagging.
 
Nice guys never get the poon, they always go for the asshole dudes, learn to act like a dick and girls will love it. They pretend like they are looking for the good guy, but they are really all just a bunch of skanks
 
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