Well first off, we REALLY appreciate your tolerance for this. Honestly we do - its people like you that make this site work.
The YouTube thing is a necessary evil. We want to embrace video from everywhere... but we need to make sure we get something out of it too. I think once we really dial back on the insanity of ads, we'll find a balance that will work for everything.
Always a work in progress, and I don't pretend we're perfect for every decision we make. When we fuck something up - I feel really bad. It is not lost on me however that you guys stick with us and tolerate some of these things.