Relationship Help

KaneDog

KaneDog

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I've been with this girl for 2 months, I'm really into her.

She tells me she's really into me, but refuses to ask me to hang out, text me first, things of that nature.

I don't why that is, when we're together everything is alright but it's when were not when things get hard.

I just need some advice. Thanks NS

If you have questions, ask, I know i was very vague
 
So... let me get this straight.. You've "been with" this chick for 2 months and yet you never hangout. Is this one of them interweb relationship things?
 
Just ditch her ass. If she can't make the first initial contact or want to hang out then she isn't worth a fuck. And if all she does is make the first contact or want to hang out then she's probably to clingy.

My advice, foreign, small amounts of English, hot and loves to do house work. Thanks what you need, son.
 
But seriously that's my answer. She's playing games. Either play the game or don't. As for me, homie don't play that
 
Girls are really confusing...do this to see if she is really into you..one day don't text her if she texts you then bam you're good to go..if she doesn't text you see how long she will go without talking to you i say 24 hours or more then dump her...2 months is too little to get attached so do it while you can!
 
You know, it's a tough job but somebody has to do it. I'm just a humble man doing the Lord's work
 
Aidan-G is the first post on every thread I click on...he's always first. In fact, he probably got to OP's mom before OP's dad did, and he is, therefore, every single OP's dad. Bow to your sensei OP
 
Aidan-G is the first post on every thread I click on...he's always first. In fact, he probably got to OP's mom before OP's dad did, and he is, therefore, every single OP's dad. Bow to your sensei OP
 
See what people don't know is that I am about 87% of all the members of NS. Most of them are just aliases. I am Aidan-G. I am AR6rider. I am SFB+. I was ECB. I am everywhere.
 
OP ignore her over the phone, social media, and at school for 2 days.

Record responses.

Analyze results.

Support/refute hypothesis (aka girlfriend)

repeat experiment to validate results.

Conclusion (date/dump)

scientific method up in this bitch
 
I enjoy the fact that I accidentally double posted in this thread, and was consecutively upvoted 8 times, and then downvoted 5 times for a net effect of a wopping 3 upvotes.

Nice. I'm no psychic, but I'll bet this post gets downvoted now also. Come at me bros
 
girls do suck man. Honestly, from what i heard, I wouldnt bet against there being another guy in her life. she doesnt want to be tied down by you so that she can have a chance with this other guy.
 
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Why the fuck do you people care if we ask other users on a website forum what we think we should do, if you don't have any real advice then you should probably get the fuck out
 
Don't play stupid games. If she want to spend time with you she can pick up that damn phone if not, you don't need her. Don't put up with her shit or she has you by the nuts. Grow a sack and tell her to ether make an effort or piss off.
 
just deal with it OP.

if she were the one constantly texting you first you would be in here bitching about how overly attached she is.

is she worth phoning or texting?

if so, than who the fuck cares if you have to phone her first.

dont assume that just cause she doest contact you first means shes not interested.

if shes not interested she just straight up wont answer.

but if youre constantly asking her to hangout and she is constantly saying no then just take the hint and pee in her butt.

 
We'll if she's mellow I guess it's normal, I don't really initiate anything with my friends or my boyfriend...they kinda just make the plans for me. As long as she isn't embarrassed to be around you, it's all good. And if you're banging her just don't complain. Don't complain at all.
 
You sound like a boring person. I would hope this kids "girlfriend" is not embarrassed to be around him. What kind of relationship would evolve from that? You are telling him if he gets laid its alright, stay with her. Worst advice ever....

OP be straight up with her. Tell her how you feel dude. Tell her, "hey, I really would like it if you would start planning times that we can spend with each other. I feel as if I am the only one communicating in this relationship. And for it to move forward I want to know that we are both on the same page. I want to make this work, but it stresses me out, and gets me thinking when I am the only one who wants to do anything to further our relationship."

Be confident, show her that you are truly passionate about how you feel. Keep calm and if it doesn't seem to be a priority of hers, then honestly dude, it doesn't sound worth it to me.
 
She's probly waiting for you to initiate plans and seek her out. Girls love that traditional BS
 
yes. This and so much this. Who cares dude? If you like hanging out and you guys hangout wtf is the problem?
 
Nuh-uh. I had three and a half hours of ground school today. Suck a dick Matt. Go watch Hell on Wheels
 
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