14539734:Turd__Authority said:That's shitty but he might of had a good reason. When a claim is filed the insurance company ensures it is done right and promptly. It also qualifies him for rental car if that's part of his coverage. If he went with your parents (private payors), he'd be making a risky decision and also would be without any transportation for days or weeks depending on repair timelines.
And your insurance was going up regardless of who paid because you were in an at fault accident.
**This post was edited on Jun 2nd 2023 at 5:59:55pm
14539742:profa_212 said:100%. The second the police were there your insurance was going up.
also, it may sound shitty to you woflo, but he probably needed to go through insurance. Like he said his car doesn't sound drivable, so he is going to need a rental. his insurance will pay for that.....that can be $1000 plus depending on shop time that you really don't want to risk on a handshake deal with some kid.
honestly from what I understand about the crash you sound pretty damn lucky you didn't catch his B column and you don't owe him a new car. So count your blessings on that
14539743:CoolChillGuy420 said:Or he didn't give him a hospital bill on top of fixing his car. Flowzy you gots to learn, my guy. Homie played his cards absolutely right and especially considering you're a young and inexperienced driver + your parents offering hushmoney.
**This post was edited on Jun 2nd 2023 at 6:41:14pm
14539750:WoFlowz said:they just don’t want i strange going up cause it’s 3400$ a year for me on the disco and on their cars. I’m at fault so I have to pay the deductible and repair fees but It would have been nice to not have insurance go up with it.
I mean it is an accident. I did everything right like find the person and call the police and exchange info. I very well could have driven off and not had done anything at all
14539755:Turd__Authority said:Your parents pay $283/month for your car insurance?!
14539756:WoFlowz said:i pay a 150$ of it but yes, is that not a normal amount?
**This post was edited on Jun 2nd 2023 at 9:20:28pm
14539756:WoFlowz said:i pay a 150$ of it but yes, is that not a normal amount?
**This post was edited on Jun 2nd 2023 at 9:20:28pm
14539732:CoolChillGuy420 said:$500usd for your own living space with kitchen, laundry, living space, is literally living like a king compared to what places like SLC are charging. I'm fine with living with roomates but ive been paying $625 to 1100 for a room and shared living spaces. Premium market? sure, ill give them that. But bigger picture thinking puts things into perspective. I could be paying off a mortgage in a cozy little house in the midwest somewhere by now. We all have a right to be angry. Ive had shit luck with both private and corporate landlords. My last setup was so fucking amazing ($625 in Millcreek off of 3300, about 30 minutes from skiing and tons of good food), but our landlord was also a realtor and wanted to cash-out on the housing boom. Cant say I blame her
14539691:Lenny- said:Mods here really do everything on here except delete a post when you ask em or fix error 232011. ?
14539640:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:Yeah I do agree with this largely. You make more in the USA but goddamn are they always finding ways to take it. Hidden fees, taxes not included in price, tips everywhere, higher prices, etc. etc. Even Airbnb is different in the states compared to Europe (I’m comparing to Finland). They show you full price on Finnish Airbnb, on USA one they don’t show you fees until you go to book.
Only thing I don’t agree with is dental co-pay. It’s cheaper than that (at least for me with delta dental insurance).
14539770:theabortionator said:Idk, maybe ask multiple before you complain? Check in from time to time but people aren't on here 24/7 it's not a paid gig.
Sometimes you message somebody to delete a thread and they don't see it cause thwy went to bed or something. There's also a "to be deleted thread" if needed.
Any time if you want a thread or post deleted mods are pretty good about it.
14539770:theabortionator said:Idk, maybe ask multiple before you complain? Check in from time to time but people aren't on here 24/7 it's not a paid gig.
Sometimes you message somebody to delete a thread and they don't see it cause thwy went to bed or something. There's also a "to be deleted thread" if needed.
Any time if you want a thread or post deleted mods are pretty good about it.
14539775:PacificRimJob said:Yeah, most of the time that I see someone ask for a thread or post deleted, I go to do it and see it's already been done by someone else already
14539757:r00kie said:That is insane. I pay like $80, although with a $2000 deductible.
14539761:Newsheepers said:im paying $160 a month for a turbo forester and its technically my first car, and that's a lot according to my parents
14539799:WoFlowz said:Jesus. We’re getting robbed, maybe it’s cause i’m on both of their cars and mine right now? Insurance in NY is also higher in general ive heard, but still that’s a lot
14539768:PacificRimJob said:Thats's what I'm saying man... the whole housing market in America has been turned into this whole investment commodity thing to a gross degree... We have so many houses just sitting vacant all over America while the homeless live in tents and people struggle to find places to rent. I can drive through my old neighbourhood in Truckee past hundreds of vacant houses while people in town struggle to even find long-term rental opportunities.
Nimbys care more about the bottom line of their individual home value than they do about the community around them, and suppress developments or zoning law changes or anything positive from happening that would help fix this housing crisis American cities are in. It's part of why our infrastructure is stuck in the 1950s and there's no real improvement in any meaningful way.
People end up having to move further and further away from the places they work just to afford a home, or find a place to rent, and then have to spend more money on gas and burn more fuel and waste more time in bumper-to-bumper traffic in order to get there.
The whole thing is a bit of a joke.
I mean obviously this country has it's own shitty, stupid ass problems. Property here would cost a lot more if it wasn't a rapidly shrinking population with rapidly aging demographics. But I guess at least here, you don't have nimbys with any real power - especially to file lawsuits preventing residential development, the housing market isn't as heavily commodified, the zoning laws are lax enough that you can build anything almost anywhere that's up to code, and dense, mixed-use, transit-oriented developments are the norm even out in the countryside in order to maximize usage of space, arable land, and contain the community in a healthier way.
Just in my neighbourhood... I left for a few months to run the shop in Hokkaido and take care of some business in the USA, and I came back and entire older, deteriorating buildings had been demolished and rebuilt within a matter of months. The people living there might have been displaced a bit, but there's also a nearly endless supply of options for new places in the area to move into. Developments go up QUICKLY and nobody even gives a shit because theyre done faster than you can make a formal complaint about the noise.
Whereas whole city blocks in America will sit vacant because nimbys in the area disagree with what developers or the city want to do them... Japan might have people who are unwilling to abandon the fax machine, but America has people who are unwilling to allow their entire cities to improve because they're afraid they will have more competition to park their F150s that they never use in any practical way - or umpteen other stupid, petty, lame reasons. It's fucking infuriating dude.
14539806:ASSholebomber22 said:You act like just because the norm in the US is a higher standard there aren't dirt cheap studios everywhere.
Homeless people in the US aren't homeless because there aren't enough 300sqft studios vacant. They're homeless because blasting fent, selling snap benefits, and begging is easier than working 40hrs a week to live in a shoebox
14539756:WoFlowz said:i pay a 150$ of it but yes, is that not a normal amount?
**This post was edited on Jun 2nd 2023 at 9:20:28pm
14539806:ASSholebomber22 said:You act like just because the norm in the US is a higher standard there aren't dirt cheap studios everywhere.
Homeless people in the US aren't homeless because there aren't enough 300sqft studios vacant. They're homeless because blasting fent, selling snap benefits, and begging is easier than working 40hrs a week to live in a shoebox
14539811:r00kie said:Idk man, I live rural Idaho and even here the only way I make it work is renting a room from my employer for far below market rate. I make a salary that is typical for my field/education/experience. It's getting stupid.
14539799:WoFlowz said:Jesus. We’re getting robbed, maybe it’s cause i’m on both of their cars and mine right now? Insurance in NY is also higher in general ive heard, but still that’s a lot
14539824:ASSholebomber22 said:Didn't you move there for that job? Did you not look into housing availability?
14539768:PacificRimJob said:Thats's what I'm saying man... the whole housing market in America has been turned into this whole investment commodity thing to a gross degree... We have so many houses just sitting vacant all over America while the homeless live in tents and people struggle to find places to rent. I can drive through my old neighbourhood in Truckee past hundreds of vacant houses while people in town struggle to even find long-term rental opportunities.
Nimbys care more about the bottom line of their individual home value than they do about the community around them, and suppress developments or zoning law changes or anything positive from happening that would help fix this housing crisis American cities are in. It's part of why our infrastructure is stuck in the 1950s and there's no real improvement in any meaningful way.
People end up having to move further and further away from the places they work just to afford a home, or find a place to rent, and then have to spend more money on gas and burn more fuel and waste more time in bumper-to-bumper traffic in order to get there.
The whole thing is a bit of a joke.
I mean obviously this country has it's own shitty, stupid ass problems. Property here would cost a lot more if it wasn't a rapidly shrinking population with rapidly aging demographics. But I guess at least here, you don't have nimbys with any real power - especially to file lawsuits preventing residential development, the housing market isn't as heavily commodified, the zoning laws are lax enough that you can build anything almost anywhere that's up to code, and dense, mixed-use, transit-oriented developments are the norm even out in the countryside in order to maximize usage of space, arable land, and contain the community in a healthier way.
Just in my neighbourhood... I left for a few months to run the shop in Hokkaido and take care of some business in the USA, and I came back and entire older, deteriorating buildings had been demolished and rebuilt within a matter of months. The people living there might have been displaced a bit, but there's also a nearly endless supply of options for new places in the area to move into. Developments go up QUICKLY and nobody even gives a shit because theyre done faster than you can make a formal complaint about the noise.
Whereas whole city blocks in America will sit vacant because nimbys in the area disagree with what developers or the city want to do them... Japan might have people who are unwilling to abandon the fax machine, but America has people who are unwilling to allow their entire cities to improve because they're afraid they will have more competition to park their F150s that they never use in any practical way - or umpteen other stupid, petty, lame reasons. It's fucking infuriating dude.
14539855:Jems said:homophobes stay mad
14539806:ASSholebomber22 said:You act like just because the norm in the US is a higher standard there aren't dirt cheap studios everywhere.
Homeless people in the US aren't homeless because there aren't enough 300sqft studios vacant. They're homeless because blasting fent, selling snap benefits, and begging is easier than working 40hrs a week to live in a shoebox
14539834:CoolChillGuy420 said:Being in SLC is a nightmare. I've contemplated moving outside of the city and farther away from work due to the cutthroat competition. I'm 10 minutes down the street from the U, Hospitals, etc., in a cozy neighborhood with tons of access to schools, so its a competition between college kids, doctors/residents/medical workers, young families finding their first homes, etc. You just can't fucking win as a single late 20s person trying to get their career going it feels.
And then every fucking rental in the area is either student contracts, sublets, and very picky as far as roomates go.
Honestly fuck it. Homeless sounds rad as hell.
14539869:PacificRimJob said:Nah dude, It's not because there aren't dirt cheap studios anywhere (which.. there definitely aren't), it's also because it's increasingly difficult to get back up if you fall down - or get scammed out of your position... like through an MLM or one of the many other ways people can have their savings ripped away from them if they were privileged enough to have one in the first place.
You have to apply to even get considered to rent anything.. and then pay your first, last, deposit you wont get back etc. And yeah, some people are addicts or have mental health issues tied up in the constant cycle of not being able to get any traction, or even get a job because they don't even have an address to put down on the job application.
Many people don't just have 3000$ in cash to move into a new place - if theyre even accepted to move in anyway by either the landlords, leaseholders, or the tenants.
People are homeless for a LOT of reasons. Not all of them are even homeless just because theyre schizos, addicts, or felons, and if you had even a shred of compassion, you'd understand that nobody really deserves to be homeless.
Either way, I'm pretty fucking happy that I have access to available, affordable housing that I can call my own, that I can pay off my rent within a couple days worth of work and that I'm not reliant on having a reliable automobile in order to commute, affordable gasoline prices to run it and my life is all within a downtown part of a major world city, and I can go skiing or surfing on the weekend and I don't ever have to deal with traffic on the interstate.
14539873:ASSholebomber22 said:Have you done any homeless outreach? I was pretty involved with a 501(3)(c) that helped young adults ageing out of the foster system. I can tell you that there are an incredible amount of resources, at least in CO, that allow you food, shelter, and services to get id/social security. I can also tell you that those services are not in the business of enabling habitual criminals and addicts, and as such they are avoided because again, in many, many ways homelessness in the US is a choice.
Look at denver Craigslist and search price low to high for housing. Many places going for less than 1k, and most if not all low skill employment (fast food) will hire same day and pay daily or weekly at $16+/hr. But why do that? Good honest work is hard, you can always shoplift handbags and jordans or steal catalytic converters on your own time.
Also fuck taking a train or multiple to go skiing lmao imagine not having a cooler full of bl smoothies and a grill in the whip on cue for grillin thrillin and chillin
14539877:Young_patty said:Just gonna nerd out for a moment.
Taking this mythology class and we've been studying old myths from around the world. It's actually insane how many different cultures share similar tropes and ideas in their myths.
The Epic of Gilgamesh, and loads of other mythology mention a giant flood that wipes out almost all humans and animals- and the Epic of Gilgamesh was written ~1,000 years before the bible.
Norse mythology is largely modeled off of Greek mythology, which is largely modeled off of African/Egyptian mythology. No joke, the structure of god's and mythological tropes that they each use are so similar it's uncanny. Crazy to see how 3 wildly different cultures all share similar components of their culture and mythology. It just feels so oddly human to see that mapped out and realize we're all just as similar as we are different.
Anyway, finishing this writing assignment and then play Fallout!
gn NS
14539879:PacificRimJob said:In University I volunteered with the municipal homeless advocacy group, and did a whole videojournalism project the local transients and homeless in town. This was over a decade ago, but I don't think homeless have really changed that much. I've spoken with these people. Met a lot of good folks. Met a lot of weirdos. Met a lot of good weirdos. Met some antisocial jerks. Met addicts and people with some pretty severe issues. Its a broad spectrum. You're absolutely right that some homeless people absolutely choose to live their life this way, whether it's out of not knowing anything better, because they refused to receive the mental healthcare they definitely needed, or just straight up not wanting to be any part of it from an antisocial idealistic standpoint or otherwise...
But I also met a LOT if not a majority of people who were really just hopeless and felt like the whole system let them down.They didn't feel like there was any other way because anything that they had tried had failed and they were either too scared, or too prideful, or too discouraged to put themselves in a - to them - more vulnerable position than they already were in. Sometimes it's even just because the community they have with other homeless people is the only family or sense of community they've ever had in their whole life anyway. The sheer amount of recidivism amongst homeless is massive, and even sometimes people who make it out, and get back on their feet, get spun back into it as soon as one thing goes wrong. Theyre traumatized just that badly.
These people have little confidence that anything is going to actually get anything better, or that the system will ever work out for them because it never has worked out for them, and when housing is as expensive as it is, and when they need to have a car and a phone and a computer and stable internet and everything else to be able to join common society, it only makes it all the harder for these types of people to bounce back. To them, it's not something they've ever even known. Sometimes they even justify their position by saying they don't want to be a normie etc.
This isnt something where homeless people are all just lazy or get a thrill of looting the local footlocker - no doubt there are some kleptos and sociopaths out there who can self justify any bad deed - but sometimes they're just so traumatized that they resort to being homeless as almost a comfort zone - it's what they know, and they don't want to make a change because they think theyre going to fuck it all up and end up right back here again.
All that said... just because some homeless are assholes or steal shit does not mean they deserve to be homeless. They might decide to be, but they don't deserve to be.
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As for taking the train to ski/not having a cooler full of things and a grill - well, I mean you can still drive to go skiing here. In fact, it's the best and sometimes only way to get to some of the more off the best spots. I have no problem with driving to go skiing. I just don't want to rely on it for my everyday commute. Sure, if you have a car in a place like Tokyo, you might have to pay 80-100$ for a monthly parking spot in if your place doesn't have parking available. My medium-term plan is to just buy a place in the mountains to compliment this spot and have a little kei car there ready to go (spots in the countryside always have parking)
But I gotta say, for the weekend warrior who just wants to go up on a Saturday by themselves for a daytrip and come back home, it's an awesome alternative and it frees up the roads for folks like you (and myself for that matter) who sometimes want to bring the cooler and the grill for the apres. It's a win-win, man. Some people want to just throw their skis on the train and dick around on their phone for 2 hours and not have to worry about driving in the snow or interstate traffic, and some people want to have a sick little snow whip and a trailer for the sleds etc.
In Japan, In Europe, you can have both. It's fuckin sweet. I guess Denver has the winter park train, but it's super limited by comparison (like what.. 2 per day?). Imagine if there was a high speed train going 80-100mph that's faster than a car to get there with at least 5 or 6 departs in the morning and 5 or 6 in the afternoon/evening, so people could stay and apres. Imagine if they did that going up i70 as well with stops in Silverthorne, Breck, Vail, Aspen, etc. Tourists could just fly in and take the train all the way to the airport and avoid all the nonsense. Would be an absolute gamechanger and make driving i70 a breeze by comparison to now.

14539904:theabortionator said:I feel like people are just addicted to FB marketplace/sale groups.
They'll try and sell every piece of shit broken thing for too much. Just annoying. Or just clog up groups nickle and diming for clothes. Like just donate the things.
If your thing is broken or you dont even know if its works/is any good dont try to get top dollar. Marketplace and those flea market type shows got to peoples heads. Shits wack
14539907:Lonely said:Yeah man the sellers nowadays are fucking wild. The mtb shit in particular drives me bonkers. Homies are trying to sell used 2 year old bikes for msrp. "but I upgraded the pedals and the grips so that's like, 500$ in performance upgrades hur dur dur"
Buyers fucking suck too. Listed my camera, of the 10 initial responses 3 were people writing essays about why I should give it to them for free so they can better shoot their indy movie or become an influencer.
Incredibly whack
14539910:Non_State_Actor said:There is no in between.
I just try to give stuff away to friends and neighbors. Most of the stuff I'm clearing out are kid items so there's a good network of hand-me-down used stuff amongst my peers.
14539768:PacificRimJob said:Thats's what I'm saying man... the whole housing market in America has been turned into this whole investment commodity thing to a gross degree... We have so many houses just sitting vacant all over America while the homeless live in tents and people struggle to find places to rent. I can drive through my old neighbourhood in Truckee past hundreds of vacant houses while people in town struggle to even find long-term rental opportunities.
Nimbys care more about the bottom line of their individual home value than they do about the community around them, and suppress developments or zoning law changes or anything positive from happening that would help fix this housing crisis American cities are in. It's part of why our infrastructure is stuck in the 1950s and there's no real improvement in any meaningful way.
People end up having to move further and further away from the places they work just to afford a home, or find a place to rent, and then have to spend more money on gas and burn more fuel and waste more time in bumper-to-bumper traffic in order to get there.
The whole thing is a bit of a joke.
I mean obviously this country has it's own shitty, stupid ass problems. Property here would cost a lot more if it wasn't a rapidly shrinking population with rapidly aging demographics. But I guess at least here, you don't have nimbys with any real power - especially to file lawsuits preventing residential development, the housing market isn't as heavily commodified, the zoning laws are lax enough that you can build anything almost anywhere that's up to code, and dense, mixed-use, transit-oriented developments are the norm even out in the countryside in order to maximize usage of space, arable land, and contain the community in a healthier way.
Just in my neighbourhood... I left for a few months to run the shop in Hokkaido and take care of some business in the USA, and I came back and entire older, deteriorating buildings had been demolished and rebuilt within a matter of months. The people living there might have been displaced a bit, but there's also a nearly endless supply of options for new places in the area to move into. Developments go up QUICKLY and nobody even gives a shit because theyre done faster than you can make a formal complaint about the noise.
Whereas whole city blocks in America will sit vacant because nimbys in the area disagree with what developers or the city want to do them... Japan might have people who are unwilling to abandon the fax machine, but America has people who are unwilling to allow their entire cities to improve because they're afraid they will have more competition to park their F150s that they never use in any practical way - or umpteen other stupid, petty, lame reasons. It's fucking infuriating dude.
14539896:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:Winter Park train is like $60. There’s bustang too for like $40 or so, last I checked. They go to every resort but the reality is that people just don’t want to pay those prices.
14539928:nCrow said:Yeah the train and buses in CO are not realistic public transit options at all. Pretty sure the bustang or snowstang just didn’t even show up one day earlier this season in silverthorne and left a bunch of people stranded in the mountains
14539940:ColoradoDogfart said:My biggest opp in life is literally gaining weight this shit is fucking impossible
14539940:ColoradoDogfart said:My biggest opp in life is literally gaining weight this shit is fucking impossible
14539940:ColoradoDogfart said:My biggest opp in life is literally gaining weight this shit is fucking impossible
14539950:Rparr said:I’m in the same boat, can barely eat enough to maintain body weight