Queer, trans, nonbinary shredders on NS?
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little1337
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I'm sure this thread will go completely fine
MiIfHunter
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CatdickBojangles
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14219764:little1337 said:
A wild Dolan has appeared.
xxACIDTRIPxx
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Trans checking in. Wanna drink some CRAFT BEER and go SHREDDING BRO??! afterwards we can go to the bar for some APRES SKI its going to be totally fun DUDE!!!
RenoTahoeStunna
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Lesbian woman stuck in a mans body over here howdy.
xxACIDTRIPxx
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14219818:Rotten_Trumpkins said:
Yes.
xxACIDTRIPxx
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14219809:iFlip said:
Fuck you misogynist
This thread is/ will be shot but gay dude here.
Also when cults were a thing there used to be a pretty cool gay skier cult but thats been dead since like 2011 like most of the cults.
There's plenty of gay skiers put there. Also plenty of homophobic doucher that say "why do people make a big deal out of it" yet are the ones saying homophobic/racist things on the regular.
It's 2020, it shouldn't matter but it still does. It matter a lot less though.
Also a big reason for that is visibility, which goes against the doucher "why do people talk about it" vibe. If you didn't know any good skier or your friends were gay it'd be way easier to be an ass on the subject and say cringey things.
Also gotta love the straight guys that talk a bunch of shit, nothing but pussy etc, probably struggle to get laid, but then you're making a big deal out of it if you're like "yo im gay".
Idk it's just brapping around on the mountain. Go fast take chances, who the fuck care. Yolo and stuff.
There's plenty of gay skiers put there. Also plenty of homophobic doucher that say "why do people make a big deal out of it" yet are the ones saying homophobic/racist things on the regular.
It's 2020, it shouldn't matter but it still does. It matter a lot less though.
Also a big reason for that is visibility, which goes against the doucher "why do people talk about it" vibe. If you didn't know any good skier or your friends were gay it'd be way easier to be an ass on the subject and say cringey things.
Also gotta love the straight guys that talk a bunch of shit, nothing but pussy etc, probably struggle to get laid, but then you're making a big deal out of it if you're like "yo im gay".
Idk it's just brapping around on the mountain. Go fast take chances, who the fuck care. Yolo and stuff.
SuspiciousFish
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14219853:JAHBRADOR said:
Some scientist lady regularly jerked off her Dolphin subject to keep him happy. I think Playboy even did an article on it or something like that.
dolanslebensraum
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I chopped my dick off and dug out a vagina with a grapefruit spoon. Looks awesome i think
14219809:iFlip said:
Not saying this applies to you but a lot of the people that say "i don't care just keep it to yourself" do care and that's why they say that. Even reading good articles about athletes in our sports that came out, well done stuff, almost all great feedback and lots of shares. Then also a string of " i dont care who you fuck, just keep it to yourself" type comments. Every time.
Weird that a lot of these people that don't care, care enough to comment similar stuff on every post on the topic.
Idk, if you were talking about going out to lunch with your girlfriend it's normal conversation. Same thing with boyfriend, god can you just stop talking about being gay? We get it.
Granted sometimes people bring it up more because people are assumed to be straight. And it really comes up a lot. People talking about who they're fucking etc. I keep it to myself a lot of the time because i want people to get to know me without that being some weird barrier to them and in a way what becomes you identity to them.
Also if you tell somebody you're gay when you've only known them for a little while "Nobody cares, why you bringing that up"
If they find out you're gay later down the road "Bro that's crazy why didn't you say something".
I've moved around a bunch and it happens a lot.
Some people bring it up in certain situstions because they feel like they can't tslk about it sometimes, or just came out. The topic comes up and talking about it feels good especially if they've been keeping it all to themselves.
Idk, if someone posts a picture of their dog I don't say "That's great you have a dog now can you stop talking about it". Although some people's doggo life in social gets a little too overkill.
But yeah, the "I don't care, just keep it to yourself" vibe is bullshit 95% maybe 100% of the time.
Some people are a little overkill and being gay is sort of their identity. That gets annoying but it's not the majority. Honestly a lot of gay people you wouldn't know because shockingly being gay doesn't define people. But sometimes it's nice for people to know so girls stop trying to fuck, and people keep asking about why you don't have a gf, hook you up with a girl etc.
Also nice when people at least don't say the super ignorant homophobic shit they usually say when you're around.
iFlip
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14220068:theabortionator said:
I'm glad that you put some thought into that response. I wrote my response as I meant it. I really don't care who is gay or straight or other. I also really don't want sexuality forced into my face when I'm not looking for it. Sure, I could have not clicked on this thread. But I still see it there. That's not the issue, of course.
I don't broadcast that I'm straight, as that is forcing an issue of sex upon people. If you're gay (not you specifically, I know you are), I'm happy for you. I'm glad you've found your place, accepted it as part of who you are, and don't feel shame or guilt. As a society (particularly millennials and Gen Xers) we've mostly moved away from stigmas and negative connotations that were previously attached to being gay. I do not see the need to broadcast sexuality publicly, whether it be gay, straight, or other.
RenoTahoeStunna
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14220088:iFlip said:
A gay couple isn’t exactly making you watch them fuck each other because they won’t hide their relationship to keep you in your safe space.
The problem is with you if you expect people to lie about who they are to conform to your expectations.
Families offend me personally. Get your LL Bean hallmark card shit away from me.
hank.ski
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Yo, I just wanna say that if the extent of comfort you get to experience as a gay man in heteronormative spaces is The Boys
not saying *as much* homophobic shit...that sucks. You deserve spaces where you can celebrate your sexuality! Thats why we need spaces of our own and queer communities. Your sexuality doesn't need to be your whole identity for you to deserve queer joy. And even if it is your whole identity, I've never met an lgbtq+ person who was more annoying about who they're fuckin than like any run of the mill frat bro.
not saying *as much* homophobic shit...that sucks. You deserve spaces where you can celebrate your sexuality! Thats why we need spaces of our own and queer communities. Your sexuality doesn't need to be your whole identity for you to deserve queer joy. And even if it is your whole identity, I've never met an lgbtq+ person who was more annoying about who they're fuckin than like any run of the mill frat bro.14220068:theabortionator said:
hank.ski
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2 things here
1. It's just sex. Everyone does it (with others or alone), and as long as it's consensual, it doesn't hurt anybody! Maybe you should just get a little more comfortable with the fact that humans are sexual beings.
2. If you can't get more comfortable with that, then I guess that's understandable, maybe you've experienced trauma around sex or had experiences that make it hard to discuss. But trans and queer people still get killed for their sexualities, and the whole "keep it to yourself" vibe is a part of normalizing that violence. We deserve community. You don't have to participate in that community, but you do have to respect its right to exist. Think about why lgbtq+ people need that level of respect. Kinda seems like the bare minimum to me.
**This post was edited on Dec 31st 2020 at 10:41:00am
1. It's just sex. Everyone does it (with others or alone), and as long as it's consensual, it doesn't hurt anybody! Maybe you should just get a little more comfortable with the fact that humans are sexual beings.
2. If you can't get more comfortable with that, then I guess that's understandable, maybe you've experienced trauma around sex or had experiences that make it hard to discuss. But trans and queer people still get killed for their sexualities, and the whole "keep it to yourself" vibe is a part of normalizing that violence. We deserve community. You don't have to participate in that community, but you do have to respect its right to exist. Think about why lgbtq+ people need that level of respect. Kinda seems like the bare minimum to me.
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**This post was edited on Dec 31st 2020 at 10:41:00am
iFlip
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14220105:[hank said:
So because I don't want sexuality (gay, straight, other) front and center at all times I must have experienced trauma?
And because I believe that keeping one's sexual exploits to oneself is appropriate, I'm normalizing violence?
You are exactly the kind of person I strongly dislike. You're not a victim. I'm not assaulting you. Society is not out to get you. Button up your overalls big boy and get on with life.
hank.ski
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Not exactly. I didn't say anything about "front and center at all times", I just said we need space for community. Like skiers need space for community! I also didn't say you had experiences trauma, just that you may have...and there's no shame in trauma. We all have to live with that shit. And yeah, telling people that they have to be silent about somerhing normal and healthy is normalizing violence, because there are people out there who have the same belief as you, only they think it's okay to physically hurt people who talk about being queer openly. I don't feel like a victim of you, but I do feel like a victim of the people who have called me a faggot and shit. And there are people like me who are victims of homophobic assaults and murders. I'm not saying you did that, but I am saying that happens. Also keep in mind this was just a post asking if there are any people like me here, and you are literally welcome to keep scrolling if you don't have anything positive to contribute.
**This post was edited on Dec 31st 2020 at 12:27:57pm
14220115:iFlip said:
**This post was edited on Dec 31st 2020 at 12:27:57pm
14220088:iFlip said:
I get it but nobody says "hey I'm straight" because everyone is assumed to be straight.
That said I do see more politics, sexuality, whatever thrown around the last few years because you have to have something out there to be noticed. Idk. Im just saying that there's still plenty of negatives out there and even the in your face "yo Im gay look at me" people are still outweighed by homophobic assholes. Things have gotten way better. It's almost weird now but seeing people have meltdowns because a ski/snowboard mag, or a store like REI runs an article about the gays.
Hell my parents donate to ken hamn and his whole take back the rainbow thing. Other things like "stop the liberal homosexual agenda" like word people wanting rights is some crazy agenda, but you freaking out and stopping it because white jesus is not. My parents also drive hours out of their way to hit chick fil a just for their beliefs, not even the food.
Idk even some of the shit posted on here sometimes, or shit you hear around.
I get it, it's annoying if you feel like people are in your face about anything. But there are also annoying people that actually hate gay people. There's more of the second still even in 2020. Like I said it's gotten way better but it's still fucked.
I had a boss find out I was gay and tell people at the mountain not to hang out with me because I was gay and a piece if shit basically. Was super fun. That was only 10 years ago.
Idk, everyones experiences are different but there's still some bullshit out there.
Also visibility matters. Like the people that have never met a person from another country, barely see anyone from another ethnicity, and almost never leave their small home town. Their few of "those other people" is super whack.
That was a big problem with gay people. The one's that were open about it were kind of fucked, and everyone else hid it, making their population seem more small which helped keep the bullshit rolling. As much as the over the top in your face shit can be annoying, some of that is what helped eventually get gay people some rights and just treated less shitty by people around them. If everyone hates you some of those people will get that in your face vibe. Oh you hate me? Well fuck you.
Gay or straight isn't just sex, porn, whatever. It's just like yo, my bf/gf husband/wife. It's so casual on the one side but in your face wtf? When it's the other way.
Also there will be practically porn scenes in movies and that's ok, then a movie has 2 guys holding hands or just mentions that a character is gay and people melt.
Idk, it's whatever it's just wierd. Also the shit you here people say can be pretty gnarly.
It is what it is. I'm just a normal guy that likes shitty music and brapping around in a snowcat at night. If anything parks and music are more my identity than anything else.
Sometimes it's nice when people know for if no other reason than to not say fucked up shit. I still call people out depending on the situation but i hate the "oh hes the gay guy" or dealing with people that hate the gays. Then they become friends with you and realize that some gay people are cool some gay people are not just like anyone else.
Idk i work grsves and it's my weekend so im tired af after tonights shift and rambling. Im gonna go drink some beers.
mountaindewgirl
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Yessiree I like my women how I like my men, and I like my men how I like my women. If they're classy, cool, funny, sexy, and badass, then I'm attracted.
In the end, what really matters to me is if we have chemistry, whether the feelings are reciprocated, and do we have the potential to form a stable relationship.
In the end, what really matters to me is if we have chemistry, whether the feelings are reciprocated, and do we have the potential to form a stable relationship.
BradFiAusNzCoCa
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Honestly, go you for standing up and calling people out. You’re a fucking badass dude. I didn’t know that about you.
14219843:theabortionator said:
14220211:[hank said:
Eh, its been kinda busy but have a few times. Not riding as much as I'd like but i hate fighting crowds, especially after working all night. Well have a baby 3 jump line open
In the next few days so kind stoked on some progress.
Northstar I got lucky. We were mid mountain at the shop and people had to take gondola or chairlift to get to us. First chair was easy if you got off at the right time.
Hoping pack thins out. Im a big spring believer because of that
RenoTahoeStunna
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14220499:Rotten_Trumpkins said:
I just don't want that hetero crap around me if I am trying to party and do drugs.
Lots of people who reproduce are horrible too with horrible offspring.
RenoTahoeStunna
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14220541:[hank said:
Yeah two ugly rich white people who reverse aborted some brats suck all the way around.
dolanslebensraum
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14220058:DolanReloaded said:
How am i the only one that has done this
SlitherySnake
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14219764:little1337 said:
dang you must be a psychic or something lol good call
steeze_louise
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Stephanie Stepp is one of the best trans skiers in the game
CatdickBojangles
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14221481:I_Bohrmann said:
How does anyone downvote that?
CaptainObvious.
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14220171:theabortionator said:
these points hit hard on my thoughts on the matter. I’m still blown away at how many people I come across that are still so close minded and make hateful comments to me thinking they’re in good company with another straight white hateful man. The more we can show the shit-stains living in the 50s that they are the minority and there is serious support for the community the better. It’s really easy to just shut up and keep it to yourself when you’re on top.
Squirtle
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This is the last place I thought I would come out, but I’m trans. Still not out to everyone yet and I don’t know if/when I ever will be. I'm currently only out to my roommates and friends and some random people online such as you guys. Also, I don’t know how far I’ll go with it, I just know how I feel. Causally dating or hooking up with someone of the same gender is one thing, but committing to being trans is some scary shit. Pills, possible infertility, ughh...