Prayers, vibes, chi, whatever you do, please give it to my friend

if she is not mature enough to put the BABY up for adoption why is she mature enough to Abort the BABY?

lets face it either way i would bet her parents will find out........ also look at the long term ratifications, how will she feel 20 years down the road?

in the end, she needs to get some counseling(both view points) but i really dont see how there is any way that her parents wont find out.....

again, my best wishes to you and your friend
 
teen pregnancy is tough...but good for you for helping her out and comforting her. just remind her that she has plenty of options, and that this isn't the end of the world.
 
Because right now the baby has hardly formed, it's purely a fetus.

Once the baby comes out though, she will automatically become attached because it's 'so cute' and all that bullshit
 
what the hell are you people on, adoption is a great choice. for one, you're not murdering a child.

my mom gave me up when i was about two weeks old because she was too young to have a child n i couldnt be happier. i still talk to my mom and my dad on email just about every day and plan on reuniting with them.

if adoption is the path she is going to take, she should make sure her child has loving parents that can raise the child in a good environment with a good education. if i was a father, my child's happiness would mean the most to me, and i'm sure the child would NOT be happy with scrambled brains.

 
you know what if she's suicidal then fine ill give her prayers, but jesus fucking christ abortions are not that big of a deal and neither is getting fucking pregnant you drama queen
 
shes thought about it before. Im kinda afraid that she'll start thinking about it again. I really hope she doesnt
 
It's sad to see shit like this happen but the blame is totally on her, and now shes going to be responsible for another life at 15-16, don't even get me started on abortions.
 
yeah just tell her having a baby is not that bad.

and getting an abortion is not that bad.

my brothers girlfriend had to have an abortion when she was like 15. shes still alive
 
I cant say I m sorry for her because if you have sex you know what you are doing unless it was rape sorry but there are condoms, birthcontroll etc. !

She must feel shitty and all but as hard as it sounds life aint no cookie !! I would go for an abortion unless her parents support her fully and she is in a very good financial situation and has a stable future !! If not its just bad for her and her baby since she most probably never could be the mother which she could be when she is older and more mature ?!
 
yeah man I'm sure it sucks hard to get pregnant at that age prayers vibes blah blah blah

but seriously, shes 15! You have to be a pretty massive dumbshit to go ahead and get pregnant at that age, and she isn't even sure who the father is!?? Im pretty sure the best answer at the moment is to go for an abortion or at least give it up for adoption-because seriously, if she has a kid when shes that young, its gonna have a pretty shitty/fucked up life.
 
ummmm...

why vibes and prayers for a pregnant 15-year-old?

this is easily preventable and her own fault, i had a couple friends have close calls too, but ya know what? it would have been thier faults too

they have condoms, birth control, and the morning after pill, if your 15 and sexually active, at least be smart about it
 
this one girl at my school got pregnent so she did a bunch of meth and coke and killed the baby, then she was jumping on a trampoline and it just started to fall out. Its in her freezer now and it shrunk like 4 times its original size. The sad thing is that im not even kidding
 
Am I incredibly fucked up for laughing at this?

P.S. I was only laughing because I know it's a joke (err hopefully). If this story is true then that's FUCKED!
 
Whats the difference between a fetus now and a fetus in the 2nd trimester? What the difference between a fetus in the 2nd trimester and the 3rd trimester? Whats the difference between a fetus between the 3rd tirmester and 5 minutes after its been born? Either way, it will end up a being. You shouldn't push abortion on people, just the fact that abortion is available.

I think that your friend should have counseling because at least if she talks to a professional she might get a better idea of what she wants, and what options are available.
 
That's fucked up man. No need for that what so ever. Just because you're some bitter asshole doesn't mean you need to post shit like that. Grow the fuck up.

 
yea, doctor is key. she needs to get blood tests done, instead of just the home preg. tests. planned parenthood is free, and they dont tell your parents, and they have counselors there to go over what your options are. if she decides to keep it, the next step is to tell the parents. this is hard. but chances are they will probably be supportive to her. chances of them being mad at her past the initial reaction is slim. and finally, i would not recommend that she keep the baby. if she is in the same situation as most 15 year old girls, she is just not ready to give the kid the care it deserves. adoption is probably the best option, but abortion is there too if necessary. being a 15 year old mommy is just bad news.
 
obviously this girl who got pregnant didnt listen to her mommy's talk probably, or maybe she didnt get one yet
 
guys condoms break, thats how my brothers girlfriend got pregnant, so you cant be like "oh its all your fault" because maybe they used condom. But yeah if they didnt, then what the fuck did she expect to like fuck and not get pregnant?
 
so the point im going to highlight in here is..."still afraid about telling her parents"

yes...obviously she is going to be scared and worried, but I think you should push it highly on her that she NEEDS to tell her parents, yes they probably will get freaked out/upset or what ever but they are also the best people to have on her side right now, and its not like she can hide it from them for long, the quicker she notifies them, the better it will be for her down the road.

+++vibes for your friend, and people make the right choices
 
that really sucks dude i do feel sorry for this girl because no one wants to be in that situation, but all i can say is A) abortion and B) did you really think no one would rip when you put this on newschoolers?
 
dude, thats way to young....thats a freshman in high-school! I really hope the guy is the same age and not even 2 years older. If thats the case then this guy needs a beat down. Thats just wrong. I hope everything turns out for the best, but please emphasize the fact to her that she shouldn't even be considering having sex with anyone. To be honest that so young its disgusting, but best of luck anyways. Thats a tough position to be in.
 
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