no poles
once i dropped the poles a few years ago i don't think i'll go back. grabs are so much easier and you never have to worry about carrying crap with you all the time. also no/less risk of the classic skiers thumb pole-induced injury... it's not like I ever planted them or used them functionally in any way...
after sustaining a handful of injuries with poles it was pretty easy to justify not using them. skier's thumb a few times, bent pole over my thigh, took a pole into the chest, etc... totally avoidable injuries.
I will agree that you have a greater chance of looking like a total gaper without poles though.
IMO you have to have a certain level of skill/style to avoid looking like an idiot without poles. if you don't meet those requirements then you are far more likely to look dumb without poles than if you used them.