1. 1 inch of suspension does make a big difference. F1 cars only have 1 inch suspension in the front. But maybe you're right there's not much force involved when a 1440 lbs car traviling iin excess of 215 mph at times hits a bump in the track right? Especially when you take into acount the downforce the car is producing.
2. I never disagreed with you that the ocillations of a spring are a result of the intial displacement of the spring. The displacement of the spring is caused by intial impact force, this deforms the spring which reults in its oscillations. This is where you and I deffer. See the reason why the spring oscilates is because, someone said it best, for ever action there is an equal and opposite reaction, it was deformed and therefore must dispate it's new found energy by way of vibrations to return back to it's resting state.
3. Where you are most wrong is when you disagree with me saying that the event of the impact cannot be displaced over time or distances because;
"there is point at which the skier is not in contact with the snow and a point when he/she is in contact. I define this moment as "the moment of impact." Thus impact occurs at time t and at no other time before or after"
That kind of thinking is what kept people beleiving the earth was flat all those years. What you describe is a point of contact. This where the impact event starts, though breif to naked eye, the skier will touch the snow, the force impact will increase until the skier stops moving downwards. At this point you will record maxmium downwards force from the impact. The force will then start to decrease until the skier is back in balance with the force of gravity. This is an event not a point in time. This is basic classical physics, Newton's laws in full effect. Think about it, does a car crash instantly happen? If so, how does a sensor have enough time to sense an impact force then deploy your airbag? Same with a skier hitting the ground, it takes time.
BIG POINT ON 3, the simple matter of the fact is yes you can displaces the impact forces through the time it takes for the whole impact event to happen as well as the distance the impact covers. This is what shock absorbtion is based on, it's why car have crumple zones, it's why it's better to bend your knees landing from a jump then to keep your legs straight.
Please get a grasp on classical physics if your planning on ever exploring quantum, or theoretical physics or you will be embarrased.