noooo. i got an idea. make a note (any of the others in the thread will work) find someone with a puppy. put the note on the collar let the puppy walk in front of her and once she reads the note and is looking around come out of nowhere walk up and she'll know it was u who wrote it.
that or just the "wanna hang out somtime, or go to a movie." and remember to pay for her if u forget everything else