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High school student killed after car flips

The Associated Press

ANCHORAGE (September 12, 10:00 a.m. ADT) - An 18-year-old Anchorage student was killed Thursday night in a single-vehicle rollover crash, Anchorage police said.

Nate Kampen, a student at Dimond High School, was ejected when he lost control of the Ford Explorer he was driving and it flipped on a road in the Hillside neighborhood, Sgt. Nancy Reeder said.

Kampen's passenger, a 17-year-old girl, another Dimond student, 'walked away without a scratch,' Reeder said.

Kampen was not wearing a seat belt at the time, the sergeant said. The passenger was so distraught that it could not be learned whether she wore a seat belt, Reeder added.

'I'm guessing that from the lack of injuries to her, she was wearing one,' Reeder said.

The accident occurred about 5:45 p.m. and was preceded by 'some sort of argument' in the car, according to Reeder.

From evidence on the road, and from the girl's statement, it appeared that Kampen swerved suddenly, Reeder said.

'There were indications from statements from her that he was angry and he was jerking the steering wheel,' Reeder said.

The Explorer apparently traveled into the right-side ditch, then came back quickly to the pavement while rotating counterclockwise, she said. It flipped at least twice, landing on its tires in the opposite lane, Reeder added.

'This was a survivable collision,' she said. 'What is most heartbreaking is that he was on the cusp of his life, and for the lack of a seat belt he has lost that life.'
http://www.adn.com/alaska_ap/story/3902185p-3925281c.html

Nate was a really good friend of mine, and the chick in the vehicle with him was Eva Velarde, his girlfriend of about a year. She had been treating him like shit lately, and that's why they were fighting. Anyway, today was a mess at school. So many people were crying, and they had a whole room upstairs with posters and banners for people to sign to send to his parents. My best friend, Alysyn, wrote a really really touching poem in first hour, and they were handing out copies to everyone. My friend, Nathan, works for a T-shirt shop thing, and he's going to make a bunch with Nate's dignature on the front and 'In loving memory of Nate Kampen.' with his birth and death dates on the back.

I was really really pissed off and upset today for numerous reasons. Nate was a senior with me (I've known him for about six years), and a lot of the underclassmen were saying complete bull shit like that he deserved to die because he wasn't wearing his seatbelt and what not. That pissed me off so bad. They didn't even know him... he was the sweetest and most caring person. I always told him that he should wear it because he was going to get hurt some day, but I didn't ever imagine it would end up like this. People were also joking around and saying bull shit like, 'haha, I knew someone was going to die on 9/11.' I seriously just about punched some bitches for saying that. I saw him about an hour before he died. We were driving, and he and I did our little honking the horn joke that we always to do each other when we see one another driving. Anyway, I ate a whole pie at Village Inn.

Rest in peace, Nate.

-Sarah Daulton Oates

a.k.a. Sarz or Oatesie
 
If I act upset or bitchy/mopey today, then I'm sorry. This is the only excuse I can give you...

-Sarah Daulton Oates

a.k.a. Sarz or Oatesie
 
I'm really sorry... I had to vent. This is the 30th person I've known who's died in the past three years.

-Sarah Daulton Oates

a.k.a. Sarz or Oatesie
 
im sorry sarah, that must be pretty rough, my regards to and your school. and may you rest in peace Nate, you sound like a good kid and im sure you were.

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wow, that sucks, sorry about your friend. i had a friend get hit by a car and got seriously hurt, but he didnt die. again, sorry about your friend

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aww im sorry too sarah. that is no good. i havent known anyone who has died really..that has been close to me.

...tell me for the last time that you're sorry so i can laugh out loud as i watch you struggle; broken, bloody and barely breathing...

 
im sorry to here about this. and people that say he deserved to die are really stupid cause no ones deserves to die for reasons like not wearing a seatbelt.

Nicole

 
I'm sorry Sarah. Lately so many terrible occurences have been happening. I can relate to the coping with death. I've suffered the loss of many people. I will keep your friend Nate in my thoughts.

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wow wut fucking bitches how could they say somthing like that when a kid just died, that makes me really mad. The same thing happened at my school, only there were three people in the car, and the only one not weasring a seat belt died, the sad thing is he only had the belt off to reach for a cd that fell to the floor when it rolled. After that happend lots of people were really sad, and no one, i mean no one said shit, or else they would have got the shit beaten out of them, which is nice, cuz thats no laughing matter

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wow im real sorry, thats terrible.

all i can say is remember the good times, but dont think about it too much, or you'll get super depressed. just remember stuff like the two of you honking at each other etc.

good luck.

Joel
 
ive never had to deal with that. man, im so sorry. and who are they talking shit? come on. i wouldnt have been able to hold myself back... i'd of smashed one of em

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30 people? I wish I could say that I knew how you feel. Maybe flatspinner and I will pray for you. That is unless anyone objects?

Dont waste that shit
 
wow seriously 30 people is just bad kharma, especially if you live in Alaska. But personally not to get you down I think its fucked up you talk about a friend dieing on newschoolers. I've had people die in my life and I just think its weird that you made a post.

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i am really sorry for your loss. if i was in your position and someone said those things, i would have snapped and probably hospitalized them. good luck to you and anyone who was affected by the loss.

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that does really suck. i guess it goes to show that you can never take life for granted.

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not wearing a seatbelt has got to be one of the stupidest things ever. It only takes about 5 seconds to put it on right when you get in the car and eventually you get into the habit and dont even think about it when you put it on

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Thanks guys... I don't really know why I made a thread about it on here... I was just really really down yesterday, and I'm sorry.

I couldn't punch the kids... I just didn't have the energy. Yeah, it's stupid not to wear a seatbelt, but how dare anyone say that he deserved to die because of it. That's complete bullshit

-Sarah Daulton Oates

a.k.a. Sarz or Oatesie
 
shit, that happened 2 days ago at my school, different circumstances, but kids from the school killed in late night car accident. it sucks. i had a thread on it too incase anyone read it.

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Yea I read yours and it's so sad to see someone die just because they didn't buckle. My girlfriend died in an accident a few years ago and I'm still really sad.

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yeah three seniors died in a car crash in my town and the same thing went on at out school, everyone was just really sad and we made huge memorials, i didnt really know them so i dont know what to say but just try and think on the positive side of things

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no one has ever died that went to the english highschool, its always the frenchmen from the french highschool that always either get in skidoo accidents while drunk and commit suicide,

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I'm sorry for your loss... but please don't go around saying that because his girlfriend was treating him like shit and she was in an argument with him at the time, was the reason he died. I really hope people aren't saying that around your school. Could you imagine how hard it would be to see a loved one die right in front of you, and then have ppl in your school/town go around saying its your fault? A death is a hell of a lot to deal with, having it be your fault is even worse.

secondly... i really don't think we needed to know her name. She's 17... if they wanted her name to be publicizied they would have printed it in the article...

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^^ i seen a loved one die right in front of me,most terrible thing ever,and plus it was my grandma and they say a grandmas death is harder than any other family member

'I think I see Blue.......He looks glorius!' Will Ferrel
 
^ a gramdma's is the hardest? who's said that? obviously noone who had their brother die. or even a parent for that matter. People die, it's pretty much the only thing that everyone on Earth gets to do.

 
may he rip....

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Losing friends really does suck...

Here there are so many suicides (sometimes two friends kill each other on purpose) and stuff that like it's almost expected of us. What sucks even more is that I live in one of the wealthiest places in the country and so when me and my friends go skiing in VT or somewhere with people we know there they are always like what happened to whoever and we have to explain it to them that they won't be skiing anymore (The hard part to explain is why they died because everybody sees the wealth of the familly and assumes that their lives are perfect)... :'(

I hope you feel better about all of this though...

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im terribly sorry to hear about ure friend. iv ehad that happen bout a year ago here in squamish...i was in teh car. i know it hurts...u have my sympathy.

ps just deck hte stupid fuckers who are saying all that shit

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Tru that dying sucks..hey..if any of u wanna get really depressed just think about when u die. but i recommend not..live ur life and to SARAH: i'm sorry hun

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death is so horrible. jsut try to think of hte good tiems, and next tiems someone says something.........beat htrere ass. your friend doesnt derserve that kinda stuff.

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Kristen... just to clarify things: I was NO way implying that she was at fault. I was just telling the circumstances. Eva's a friend of mine, too. Nate's mom is blaming Eva for his death because she didn't make him buckle up. My heart goes out to her.

-Sarah Daulton Oates

a.k.a. Sarz or Oatesie
 
sorry to hear that, just remember death is the best way to find out how valuable life can be.

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shit that sucks, I'm really sorry

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ppssst....everbody dies, and if you've learned how to live, why is it such a sad thing? being sad is selfish, cause you think, oh, Ill never get to do stuff with him again, aww, im so sad. Sure thats not always the case, you could be sad cause he never got laid, that sucks..not saying that he wasn't. anyways if you can understand where im comin from cool, if not, well, you just don't understand.

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I'm sorry. I can't possibly imagine how much that hurts right now.

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are you serious, yeti?

We all die. The only thing certain in life is death. It is inevitable, and as such we must accept it. I agree that people need to let go sometimes. What's in the past has happened and can not be changed. We can either choose to let go, or choose to let it drag us down.

But Being sad is selfish? What the hell is that all about? Have some respect here.

Everyone has emotions, feelings. Whether you choose to show them or not is a different story.

Could it be that she is genuinely sad over the loss of her friend? Not because she misses what she got out of it, but because she truly cared about him?

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i definitely understand where your coming from skipimp, and i have mostly the same views, just be sad for a period and then move on, you cant really accomplish anything by being sad, even though it is natural, but just try to focus on other things, remember the person that died, but you have to move on

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its not selfish to be sad after a death, thats fucking human emotion. when somthin you loves leaves your gonna be sad, pretty much for whatever reason it left. i do argee that people should think of the person who died and their family, however to call mouring the death of a friend selfish is insane. if your best friend you wouldn't feel sad that you two couldn't spend time together anymore?

better to burn out...

...then fade away
 
ok, let me rephrase.

bing sad is ok, as long as it's for the right reasons. Mourning is never good, mourning is a mainstream collective way of dealing with death. And about respect, first off, I don't even know these people, so how can I respect them? you are calling on respect based on circumstance, and that's a formality. Sure, it's a good one, nothing wrong with it. But never accuse me of having no respect of a situation. I respect situations, but I don't always respect a person. I respect the potential of a person, and their accomplishments. AAND WHY IS EVERYONE SO FUCKING SORRY? im not sorry, if you were here, id give you a hug and an ice cream and talk about it, but I wouldn't be sorry unless I did something wrong. It's as if just by reading a story like that, you've done something wrong. You catch my drift..i hope.

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thats crazy...30 ppl. thats too much....I sort of have the same thing going on, in the last 3 years a friend's mom has died, hopefully that will stop this year.

 
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