Nsg, what are the best ways to get over a relationship?

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Steve-Brown

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call me a pussy, but we've all been there, or are going to be.

we well over a year...

and it was one of those silly highschool ones.

i haven't been with me ex for two months and i'm still not over her, i'm not even over us dating or anything, what are some of the best ways i can just get over it?

should i:

-fuck a bitch

-drown my sorrows with liquor

-talk about it more

-quit talking to her

what? i have no clue..

please help me
 
I would say find something you enjoy doing and do it a ton just to get your mind off her. Do something that's exciting, learn a new skill, just figure out how to occupy your time and brain to stop thinking about her
 
Try and stay as busy as you can and spend time with your friends and family. It's happened to me twice and the only thing that really helps is time.
 
bang bang bang

worked for me, i was in a similar situation. also she dyed her hair bright red and broke out with acne everywhere so that helped too hahaha
 
become a male prostitute and start doing heroin. Your life is pretty much ruined now that your high school gf is gone.
 
definitely stop talking to her. nailing another girl if possible is definitely a good idea. stay busy and go live your life and you'll realize there are literally thousands of other girls out there that are beautiful and (no offense but) probably way cooler than your ex

also if it's been 2 months it's time to stop doing the pity party, listen to music that isnt sad and whiny but instead oozes manliness etc etc
 
Sorta in the same situation. Almost 2 years and we recently broke up. Ive been biking alot. Like alot alot. And usually when i get back from a ride i'm too exhausted to think about anyone. Let alone her. working helps with getting shit off my mind too.
 
i have recently been where you are and looking back until you break your habits and stop talking to her you will not get over her. and then shes going to hook up with another guy and from there your going to get even more upset. best thing to do tell her that you can be friends later on in life but for now you need a break to move on since i am going to guess she already has. and find a rebound girl to keep your mind off of her, i find that the clingly type that text you and call you all the time will work the best considering they wont give you time to talk to your ex and once you stop thinking about her and caring then you can make the transition back into being friends.
 
Drown your sorrows with liquor with your buds. Once drunk youll start talking about it with them and theyll be all "Well we need to get you laid!". Youll raw dog some ratchet on the living room floor and while staring at her crooked teeth youll realize your ex was a sadistic bitch.
 
when my ex and i broke up after 3 years, we kept talking everyday. DO NOT DO THIS.

as much as i really thought we could handle it, we couldnt. the problem is, usually one person is over the other, so the other suffers. in my case, i was over her but she wasnt, so it made things stupid and for no reason.

you need to slut yourself out and have fun and forget about her. patience is key.
 
Holy shit this is prime advice.

But you definitely will be hard to stop talking to her for a while but then at that point youll be worrying about different things and different people.
 
Do what any of us would do. Go fucking skiing. Probably all of my relationships i got over in the past 2-3 years i just went skiing or trampolining.
 
Yes. This. Fuck everything with a pulse....and maybe even a few things without one. Guaranteed to make you feel better. Nothing will make you forget about old pussy faster than new pussy.
 
Get some Oreos, some milk, and watch Arrested Development for like 10 hours straight.

...you'll completely forget about her.
 
Listen to the album 808s and Heartbreak. Seriously. It helped me so much knowing Kanye could relate plus the music is perfection. Other than that, go out with friends, be a badass, get fucked up, etc. You know the drill.
 
quest after new girls, also dont be a dick and keep talking to her, because that holds you back and her back. And i have been in the situation of having a girlfriend whose ex wouldnt leave her alone and it was so annoying.
 
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I was literally in the same exact situation. I can also say DO NOT continue to talk.

I continued to talk to her for a couple months and was definitely more over the relationship than her. By continuing to talk to her I kind of led her on and made things way more complicated. Last month I told her I didn't want to talk to her at all anymore and we shouldn't be friends. I should've done that from the get go.
 
Youre going about this all wrong. Your ideas are good but they need some improving. Fuck not one but maybe 10-12 bitches (preferably at the same time), then drown your sorrows in hundreds of bottles of either makers mark or jack daniels, then proceed to tell her you fucked all the bitches. There are a few upsides to this.

1. You feel great about yourself

2. Better alcohol tolerance

3. You fucked at least 10 bitches. Be proud

By this point you have spent all your money on nice liquor so you have no money. But any man worth his salt knows that you want a good drinker working for you so you have someone to drown your sorrows with in the future. You have also made yourself the ideal candidate for this position because you have an incredible alcohol tolerance and a fine acquired taste. Now you have also given yourself an opportunity at a very successful future.
 
hang out with friends, fuck other girls, and use her as motivation and do whatever you think will put you out of her league in the future; making money (probably more just studying harder at your age), working out, etc
 
Don't talk to her or about her, 100% disassociation.

alcohol doesnt necessarily help unless its getting you laid.

you can also spend some time at the gym, it helps some people because if you look better = you feel better.

go skiing?
 
Happens man. Probably banged her on the reg and she knew how you liked it. Random bangs are kind of like pocket pussies with flesh.
 
Did the same last night and I just can't get over the craziness of my ex. Damnit now I want her more.
 
you just have to let go and cut as many ties to her as you can. you're inevitably going to be reminded of her when certain songs come on, you see a picture, anything that can trigger those memories, but the big thing is that you have to do what you can to limit those triggers.

stop talking to her, stop telling yourself it could be ok and you'll get back together, and just keep yourself busy. go exercise, go party with your boys, go do all that shit that helps you bottle up your emotion and forget about the past even if it's only temporary.

then before you know it she'll fade into the background and be nothing but a distant memory.

it's hard, i really feel you, but you just have to be strong and cut her out of the picture. you don't have to be uncivil about how you do it, but it needs to be done. moving on is the hardest thing to do, but once you do, you'll be so much happier. you both will be.
 
Time and positive thinking. drinking, fucking randoms etc seem to me like just an escape and not gratifying in the long term and you're going to feel worse. getting over it means dealing with the pain, rationalize it in your head that your only suffering right now because your used to having her and your brain chemistry is fucking with your reality for a moment as it re adjusts to normal life again. it's making you look back at her with positive visions about her when really it's not like that, stop imagining her in an idealistic way, she must have been a bitch or treated you in a shit way to want a break up in the first place. She doesn't deserve your time, energy or resources so be wise, invest in yourself and become a better man so when the right girl comes along she'll see something in you that the other ones couldn't.
 
thread has a lot of good posts. I recently just got out of an 8 month relationship and have no idea how to really cope with it. I hit the gym everyday and try to not talk or hang out with her but somehow we end up seeing eachother everyday. i would really like things to work but i have no idea what is going to happen between us. she seems as though she still cares about me and still loves me and needs me in my life but says different so i honestly have no clue. this girl means a lot to me but i don't know if it's worth it to try and get back with her or should i move on? thoughts please, because it literally drives me crazy every damn day.
 
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My ex-girlfriend is second from the right on the last pic, go ahead and call me a faggot I wanna see you get poon like that.
 
Go watch Legally Blonde with Reese Witherspoon.

It's a very positive movie, and I would fork the shit out of Reese Witherspoon.
 
Jesus... Dude you gotta stop talking to her... That is brutal; prob why you still feel like shit after 2 months.

That doesn't mean you have to hate her, or treat her badly. But just stop talking to her and if she talks to you just tell her respectfully: "talking with her is making you miserable and unable to move on and for the time being you would like some space".

I know not talking to her may be hard... But you guys broke up, and when you talk to her and you guys converse like nothing is wrong it creates a sense of false-hope that you may get back together. And it is that false-hope that is ultimately making it impossible for you to move on.

So in conclusion, end all communication with her, honestly I would suggest blocking her on Facebook just so you're not reminded her as much. The first couple weeks will be most difficult, I suggest keeping yourself busy hanging out with friends or whatever your hobbies are. Whenever you feel ready start looking for other girls, from drunk hook ups or formal dates, the thing that ultimately allow you to move on from your ex is to find someone else.
 
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