Newschoolers, im in need of help

Jake...

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Before you start reading this, im warning you it will take a while. So if your just looking for a quick post, hit the little back button the tool bar at the top. Other wise here is my story. I wanna ride quebec this march break, but my rents are worried and wont let me go. Ive tried everything. So i came across this. PLEASE read it and give any feedback you can. THANK YOU.

Dear Mom and Dad, you once told me, a long time ago, that you knew someone that wrote letters to their parents when ever they requested something. Since communication verbally hasn’t resulted in a positive manner, I figure ill give this a try.

Everyone in the world remembers there childhood, which influences how they live life in a greater spectrum as time passes by. As my years growing up have been fun and enjoyable so far, its trips and occasions you remember to the highest degree. We have been on many trips that I have enjoyed. We have been to the beautiful west coast, the east coast, as well as left the country for a countless number of times to Florida and our trip to Mexico. Now that another trip has come up, and I would like to partake in it.

This has already been addressed previously; however I feel that some communication and description was not evident. The main issue I have come to realize you have with this trip to Quebec is safety, which is very understandable. Seeing as how I cannot feel the way you feel about me, I’m thinking about what I would feel if my skis both snapped in pieces. Although the ideas and feelings are similar, there two totally different degrees on life. Let me insure you on what is 99.9% guaranteed. The first is that we will always have a place to stay. This is at Steve’s grandparent’s cottage. The second is that if we are ever in trouble, that there is always a phone (mine or house) to call for help. The third is that Steve’s grandparents are 45 minutes away, if desperately needed.

What I feel is the second biggest issue is transportation, which is an aspect of safety. I understand you barley know Andrew, and that you are apprehensive of his experience and skill as a driver, in what could potentially be snowy and icy road conditions, for a 7 hour trip. All I can say to this is that he has over 5 years of driving practice. Sure he is not near as experienced driver as someone that has 10 years of driving behind there belt. So let me ask you this. Why am I allowed in a car with Ben Harrison, at age 16, to drive me around? Because he took drivers education, and learned how to drive properly? Maybe. Because he learned how to drive cautiously in change of road conditions thoroughly? Maybe. Or is it because he’s a responsible person? Maybe. Well, Andrew has all this knowledge, as well as 5 years on Ben. I also have to say those 5 years are visible when sitting in the passenger seat of both vehicles. I respect Andrew on how he drives; taking caution with every/any situation that arises. As well, to how he modifies his vehicle. It is always running safely, and recently all weather tires were purchased for the winter season.

What could potentially be another issue is personal responsibility. When I am gone, I have gone to ski. There will be nothing that happens that you need to worry about. That’s all I have to say about this topic. I haven’t messed up yet, and it will remain that way.

In conclusion, I have to say, that this could perhaps be the trip of my life. I love everything about skiing. This is why I pursue my goals within the sport. The knowledge that I would gain from this trip would give me more experience then I would ever learn from just Dagmar/Lakeridge towards moving out west in years to come. I will meet new people, cope with new surroundings, and above all be safe and have fun. This is why I’m dying to go on this trip. Not to mention the fact that what would cost me air fair, I am getting: lift tickets, food, contributing an equal fair of transportation fees, and free accommodation. I realize that you are concerned deeply about me, which understandable. I feel I have expressed myself contently and thoroughly, and as guardians it’s up to you to make the call. On one last note, I am going to remind you of a quote mom, which you use every so often. “You have to take chances, or you will go nowhere in life”

 
i believe that if ur parents dont accept this then u should run away. obviously uv thought this over and tooken time to write a essay...good luck i think its well thought out
 
i think its solid you know...if your parents are resaonable people they might say yes...but they are just lookin out for you..its their job as a parent
 
I read it, and I would let you go. But some parents are stubborn and wont compromise with their children. So I would get them on their good side. Clean house, make dinner, be respectful, and help all you can. Good luck man, I hope you get to go. I have a ski trip coming up that I am going to try to get my parents to allow me to go on. Crossing my fingers and praying to God. AMEN!
 
wow your parents are totaly going to let you go if you give them this

and i know a kid named Ben Harison
 
Wow, really convincing. I've written letters before when I've really wanted something and it always gets me my desires. Perhaps you should suggest (I'm not sure if this is feasable since it's 7 hours), that your parents make the drive up there with you. Perhaps stay a night at a hotel or with you and make sure everything is all set. If you're letter doesn't work, perhaps that will warm them up to the idea.
 
shit i threatened that on my parents and they ceeded before i made a letter, but it was close, but i got to go to mammoth via 18 hour drive. its a pretty solid letter in my opinion. unfortunately some parents are very stubborn and it might not get you anywhere, but its convincing to me. good luck with that
 
Alright listen up, I've gotten my parents to let me drive any where to ski. Its not because my parents are chill its because i've filled them in. I've talked my parents into letting me stay in whistler for a year, which im orginally from montana which is a 12 hour drive. (im drunk currently, so stay with me)

The letter is a good idea i read it, its dope you filled in everything. What you need them to relize is that your mature enough to let you do this, im not talking about keeping your room clean or holding a job maturity. Im talking about showing your parents your ready for the world. They LOVE you, and they dont want anything to happen to you no matter how close help is. For example ive gain so much trust from my parents from doing this that when we travel i have to look after my 27 year old sister (im 19), thats how much trust i've gained from them. Your friends diriving skills dont matter shit happens to the best drivers too, and they know that. 5 years 20 years it dosnt matter shit happens, and they know this. If you where too say that you would drive for most of the trip they might feel safer about it. This sounds gay, but from what i've learned is parents love their children beyond anything; i've ever loved anything including skiing. So its all about gaining respect; what i mean by that is letting them relize that they raised you into a person that can handle themself in the world and you'll be able to make the correct dissions. (i dont think im giving you enough player skills on your parents, but its hard to illsturate it, plus im drunk so stay with me) You have to relize is they want you to be the greastest because they want the best for you. when they bitch at you for all the stupid shit, thats only because they want the best for you. and thats what you need to include into letter is that they made the person that will make all the right dissions. The wrost thing that could happen to them is that somthing bad could happen to yourself
 
I read it and it is very good, you talk about their fears and then you assuage them, the whole time while drilling your point. it is worded very well and also laid out well. If this doesn't work, i don't know what will
 
very well written letter. very convincing and you support your arguemnts well. hope you have a good time on your trip
 
i think your parents will see the time and effort put into this and give you better consideration than you just begging at their feet. good idea. i hope it all works out.
 
just go. forgivness is easier to get than permission.

that mite not help alot, just show them you can handle it and ur mature and they should let u go. othewise go with my first point.
 
i did, and i thought it was great. except i got confused with the driving probably only beacause i dont know who both of the guys were or whateva, but other than that it was good it hought
 
i read it and i think it should work but if it doesnt, then tell your parents taht you are a very responsable kid and your not into sex or drugs or anything like that, adn that you need to see the real world on your own some time better soon then later and what a better place to do that at a ski hill where theres like ski patrole and stuff. then also say that you wouldnt do anything bad esspectally becaseu then you could never do anything like that agian adn then they would have no trust in you. i think that should do it
 
Man, call me when you arrive to Québec, I'll tell your parents that I'm a very good guide because I've been living here for at least 14 years!
 
I thought it was good, but then I noticed that you spelled "airfare" wrong, so if I was your parents I would punish you for poor spelling by not letting you go.
 
how old are you? do you have trust issues with your parents? build up some trust with them, suck up and..

i usually tell my mom that life is about experiences and making my own mistakes and having fun, and i havent broken her trust... ever, so there should be no reason why she wouldnt let me do whatever, im a good kid i work hard and im safe, im never reckless so there shouldnt be a cause of worry and when i go i give her numbers of everywhere and .. then i usually get what i want
 
for me and my parents..that means jackshit...some paretns just worry SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much like mine and dont let u do anything...thast why i am starting to not ask and just do...
 
haha i agree. that took a lot of time and effort. and your parents should be able to see that. it also took a lot of maturity to think of writting a letter. i also give you a firm handshake and high five
 
i think it is very good but theres a mistkae......grandparent’s... that should have been typed as grandparents'....jus thought id let ya kno..haha good luck man!
 
SirHolland dont discount what Rossi said. She is bang on with this assesment. I think that the random dood who hes getting a ride with sounds sketchy. I dont know him, fair, but neither do his parents. If this kid is 15-16 years old he is in no place to be going on random trips 7 hours from home with people his parents dont trust.

Now, in fairness this guy might be super chill but i still sypathise with his parents for time being.

Maybe to garner your parents trust you should stop writing letters and have your parents meet his parents...or something like that. All your letter does is restate the points of argument im sure your expressed through verbal comunication.

If you still feel compelled to go through with the letter writing, a small suggestion. Your introduction is condecending. What your really saying, despite your careful wording you clearly sould like you have a level of clarity that your parents are failling to achieve. Rework the intro an the rest is technically sound.

And by the way i am ALSO a University student, so maybe that adds weight to my oppinion in your eyes.
 
ok well ive known andrew for a year or so now. We go to our local hill alot, and my parents are cool with it. they have small chatted with him a few times. I am 16, his is 20. And we ski together. ITs just the fact that its 7 hours in potentially icy raod conditions. and dont want me to get in a car crash.

I got it edited, and here it is, not many changes, just worded better:

Dear Mom and Dad, you once told me, a long time ago, that you knew someone that wrote letters to their parents when ever they requested something. Since communication verbally hasn’t resulted in a positive manner, I figure I’ll give this a try.

Everyone in the world remembers their childhood, which influences how they live life in a greater spectrum as time passes by. As my years growing up have been fun and enjoyable so far, it’s the trips and occasions you remember to the highest degree. We have been on many trips that I have enjoyed. We have been to the beautiful west coast, the east coast, as well have left the country for a countless number of times to Florida and our trip to Mexico. Now that another trip has come up, and I would like to take part in it.

This has already been addressed previously; however I feel that some communication and description was unclear. The main issue I have come to realize you have with this trip to Quebec is safety, which is very understandable. Seeing as how I cannot feel the way you feel about me, I’m thinking about what I would feel if my skis both snapped in pieces. Although the ideas and feelings are similar, these are two totally different degrees of life. Let me insure you on what is 99.9% guaranteed. The first is that we will always have a place to stay. This is at Steve’s grandparents' cottage. The second is that if we are ever in trouble, that there is always a phone (mine or cottage) to use to call for help. The third is that Steve’s grandparents are only 45 minutes away, if desperately needed.

What I feel is the second biggest issue is transportation, which is an aspect of safety. I understand you barely know Andrew and that you are apprehensive of his experience and skill as a driver, in what could potentially be snowy and icy road conditions, for a 7 hour trip. All I can say to this is that he has over 5 years of driving practice. Sure he is not near as experienced driver as someone that has 10 years of driving behind their belt. So let me ask you this; Why am I allowed in a car with Ben Harrison, at age 16, to drive me around? Because he took drivers education, and learned how to drive properly? Maybe. Because he learned how to drive cautiously in change of road conditions thoroughly? Maybe. Or is it because he’s a responsible person? Maybe. Well, Andrew has all this knowledge, as well as 5 years on Ben. I also have to say those 5 years are visible when sitting in the passenger seat of both vehicles. I respect Andrew on how he drives; taking caution with every/any situation that arises. As well, to how he maintains his vehicle. It is always running safely, and recently all weather tires were purchased for the winter season.

What could potentially be another issue is personal responsibility. If I go, I have gone to ski. There will be nothing that happens that you need to worry about. That’s all I have to say about this topic. I haven’t messed up yet, and it will remain that way.

In conclusion, I have to say, that this could perhaps be the trip of my life. I love everything about skiing. This is why I pursue my goals within the sport. The knowledge that I would gain from this trip would give me more experience then I would ever learn from just Dagmar/Lakeridge towards moving out west in years to come. I will meet new people, adapt to new surroundings, and above all be safe and have fun. This is why I am desperate to go on this trip. Not to mention the fact that for what airfare would cost me, I am getting: lift tickets, food, contributing an equal fair of transportation fees, and free accommodation. I realize that you are deeply concerned about me, which understandable. I feel I have expressed myself competently and thoroughly, and as guardians it’s up to you to make the final decision. On one last note, I am going to remind you of a quote mom, which you use every so often. “You have to take chances, or you will go nowhere in life”
 
hey man, i read hte whole thing and it is a great idea. Whenever i want to go anywhere with skiing i always make a slide show or a pamphlet (if you will) about all teh details and they respect it a lot better then if you just say "hey mom adn da i wanna go to quebec with this kid". Good luck, i hope it works!!!
 
fuck you man, im just a kid that wants to ski. and im asking for some help. sorry my parents are over protective. fuck off.
 
ahahahahhahahahahaa jesus dude, try not to let your mommy's teat-milk spash on your face when your done sucking from her nipples tonight. Maybe she you should write a letter and see if she'll let you grow a pair of balls. Just fucking go, who cares.
 
i do. if you read a blant few seconds of that you will realise im a repsectable person and wouldnt do that. HENSE the whole letter. so if you dont wanna help me go post somewhere else. thanks.
 
It's well written, I'd say give it to them. ^ And he fuckin' cares, cause they pay for his house, food, clothing and college in a few years.
 
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