yea im using all the tight contorls...and i went to the main menu and tried to see if they were locked or something...when u press like X and C or whatever it is for tail u just get a phil...my friends couldnt get it to work either
set each grab to its own button. so for me safety is z. in the window where you change it set safety to Z(1) Z(2) and use the keys z x c v b n f g and left shift.