Im sorry, but i need your help (and try to avoid the flaming)

couldn't say it better my self.

Man! your girl is clearly a tit. and so are you for not seeing this coming. and you sit here and type this long story about fuck all when all you really had to say was

'my bitch cheated' .. cuz it happenz. too often. keep her on a chain in the back yard or not at all.
 
Im not going to read the rest of the posts... Im just going to tell you.

Its not worth it. And its not going to stop if she gets away with it once. Yeah its nice she told you and all that, but seriously, its a trap. And if she really cared then she wouldnt have done it in the first place, espically if she is only 14 years old. I mean, Maybe if she was wasted at a bar... but she totaly knew what she was doing. 100%.

Same thing happened to me once. I made the mistake of not breaking up with her. 2 months later, it happens again. It doesnt hurt any less, and the second time around you have no one to blame but yourself.
 
"im not sure that i can be seen as a bitch and go back to her."

If you're overly worried about what others think about your decision, you don't like her THAT much.

Make sure that she really realizes that you were really angry, and what she did was in no way acceptable. If you don't make her understand that, then she could just think that she can walk all over you and then fuck you over all the time. She has to know how you felt so if she really does care for you, she wont do it again.

As for the dude she hooked up with, forget about him, it was your chick's choice to cheat, not his. Now if he did it knowingly trying to fuck with you, then it's your right to smash his head in a locker, but still, not the right way to go about things.

And besides, you're 16, she's 14, no matter what anyone says, 14 year olds aren't mature, so whatever.
 
quick up date: we broke up

she was like please take me back yesterday and today in school and then on the phone she was all like i dont whats going on. so, iended it and i probably wont talk to her for a while.
 
dump her...she cheated on u and showed she has no respect for u..brakeup with her...theres more fish in the sea...even if she is all apologetic and its hard u have too.....once she has crossed the line there is no coming back, if she really wanted to stay with u she wouldnt have hooked up with another dude in the first place and dont listen to the "at least i was truthfull and told u i did it" bullshit....thats just her conscious eating at her, she is doing that more for herself...i garentee if u stay with her than u will be pissed the whole time but if u dont u still might be but at least u made the right decsion.

option teo: fuck the shit outa her...then dump her, or be like ill stay with u if u give me head or have sex with me just to see if she ould do it...and if she dosnt brakeup with her and if she does brakeup with her anyways....
 
well all i know is that i have ruined things by doing something similar to what they did, and honestly did feel awful about it. when you feel bad enough about something you will generally learn from your mistake. If she didnt, then drop her.

You were only a month into the relationship, so there wasnt much time to connect i dont think. Try it again, and lay down the law. If she fucks up, then kick her in the head. Just dont get too attached, because you are taking a risk going back to her.

Besides shes a freshman. They are born stupid.
 
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