I' ve never seen death hit a community as hard as this has...

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Robert Faller

May 19, 2006

Robert Brian (Bobby) Faller, 18, a resident of Laurel Lakes, Mountain Top, passed away on Friday night, May 19, 2006, at Geisinger South Wilkes-Barre hospital, following a single-vehicle accident in Hanover Township.

He was born in Wilkes-Barre, May 3, 1988, and was a son of Brian and Lynn (Ratchford) Faller, Mountain Top.

He was a junior at Crestwood High School, Mountain Top, and a member of the golf team.

He was employed as a cook at Grotto Pizza at the Wyoming Valley Mall.

Bobby was a member of the parish of St. Jude, Mountain Top.

He was an avid outdoorsman, and enjoyed hunting and fishing with his father and grandfather, and snowmobiling with his dad.

He was preceded in death by an infant brother, James Michael Faller.

He will be remembered as a young man of great wisdom for his age, and his extraordinary understanding of people.

He was a kind, giving and caring person.

He conveyed a love to his younger cousins, and demonstrated great maturity for his age.

He will be sadly missed by his family and friends.

Last Friday night, the night of my schools prom, our town lost a prominent member of the community. A young man of 18 years old was killed in a tragic car accident, around 8:00 at night when he was coming home from work. He wasn't able to go to prom because he needed to work to pay for his car which he was already behind in payments. He got out of work early to go pick jhis friend up as they were going to and after prom party. Ten minutes before his accident, he talked to his best friend in the world, the one he was going to pick up. Tragically, he lost control of his vehicle and went into an embakement, being thrown 30 feet out of his car. He was not wearing a seatbelt. Ambulances arrived and he was rushed to the hospital. Sadly, he passed away, alone in hsi hostipal bed. None of his friends or family were able to arrive in time to say one last goodbye. That night, many people were called. The after prom parties were all spent wondering "why him?" "why bobby?" yesterday, we had a very somber day of school. He happened to be in my chemistry class, along with study hall, and though he wasn't a friend of mine it hit me incredibly hard. The whole day was spent in mourning. The teachers all let us do whatever we pleased, and his locker was turned into a memorial throughout the day. Today was the day of his wake. It was incredible how many people turned out. The funeral home is only 3 blocks from my house. There were cars parked up to 7 blocks away from the funeral home. When I went past the home on my way to get a donut, the line was over 300 people long, just outside the home. There were hundreds of people gathered around the area aswell. Our town is incredible tightknit. The last death like this was more than 3 years ago, and had a turnout just like this. I never realized how much peopele can touch others lives, even if they never knew them. This has hit our school incredibly hard. I feel so incredibly bad for his parents, especially because this is the second son they have lost. His close friends are shocked, confused, and don't know what to do. My life will never be the same now because of this death. I now have learned to not take anything for granted, to live life day by day and to appreciate my friends and family so much more, because nobody will ever know when something tragic like this will happen.

R.I.P. Robert Brian "Bobby" Faller
 
Incredibly sorry to hear it. Sounds like a really really genuine guy. Shit, I can't even imagine what you must be going through.

RIP
 
Look man, I respect the fact that you knew him. It sucks he had to die so young. This kind of thing happens all the time. I lost my friend in an accident, and it sucked for a little while, but the important thing is try to learn from his mistakes. Hopefully, you wear yourseatbelt more often. I don't always buckle up, not because I think I'm cool, I just sort of forget. Just remember mourning is good, but dampening yourself over a loss is not a good thing. Try to move on, shit happens and don't worry about death It will come when it wants.
 
Death is a crazy thing. I remember when one of my friends lost his life sophmore year of school in a car accident as well. He was in a coma for a while then just moved on. I knew this kid since kindergarden and all of a sudden he was gone. It was the worse experience going to his girlfriend's birthday party, also a friend of mine even to this day, which took place a few days after the news. His parents were there and I don't know really... it was just I can't even describe it. Our school was just as you described it, but since he moved away at the beginning of the school year not many of the teachers or under class men knew him. For all us that did, it was a very tough time but as with what people say, time heals and you will eventually move on but never forget. I'm sorry for the loss of your classmate, it's never easy.
 
scratchxxx:

what is rong with you, his friend died like 4 days ago and your telling him to move on, and saying the point is to wear ur seatbelt more often, yes that is ture but your bring this kids life down to a seatbelt and tell him to move on. Shutup, please, no1 needs ur crap.

RIP, sounds like a great genuine guy. REally terrible thing.
 
actually he was right. He said it with great respect to the loss and he was just giving advice instead of the average RIP. Its what everyone needs in a situation like this. they need to be helped instead of told how to feel.
 
did i tell him how to feel, no. I was just kinda mad because he basically summed up this kids life into the fact he didnt wear a seatbelt
 
man im really sorry to hear that

again, as i ahve said a million times, my brothers best friend died in a car accident its just so sad to see people young liek that die so early

my prayers are with you and your friends
 
wow thats really sad news

im so sorry for your loss

rip

we've lost 3 students this year in car accidents, and 4 others have attained both severe and minor injuries

its so heartbreaking to hear news like this; it's so hard to go through an experience like that and it really makes you realize taht you cant take life for granted

none of the kids that were injured or killed in the accidents were wearing their seatbelts, while the drivers in both accidents were wearing them and walked away from the accidents unscathed

so please, buckle up.
 
That kinda thing happened around here, two kids got in a car accsedent, and they both died, one was a sr and one was a jr. I didnt know either of them personaly, one of them was in my math class tho. It hit the school hard for about a week, just constant kids crying in the halls, huge downer on the whole school, rip david and kayle, and rip bobby
 
This sort of thing happens way to often. Every year that I have been in high school a student from a school a few towns over has died every spring. RIP, he sounded like a great guy.
 
A freshman at my old highschool (i was a college freshman this year) hung herself in her bathroom with her parents only a few rooms away. While your friends situation was an accident i think some paralells can be drawn.

Cherish your life, take precausions to perserve it. Wear your seatbelt, dont do dangerous drugs, and even in skiing dont bite off more than you can chew.

Be strong man, the sadness will fade and all you and your community will remember is good things about your friend. Good luck and RIP.
 
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