I now know what it is to be heartbroken

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c-wayne

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this is gana sound gay as shit but i just need to vent. Ive been dating this girl for 4 months and i can really say i love her and we are perfect together exept she lives 2 hours away from me and i only see her on some weekends and during ski season every weekend. (she skis btw) Weve been seeing eachother less and less and now its been down to like once every 3 weeks (i know rediculous right) but i lover her so i stayd with her. So tomorow would heve been 4 weeks without me seeing her and we were supposed to hang out and it was planned perfect. So she texts me tonite after i do a million things to get ready to see her she texts me and tells me shes going to vt to ski instead and shes going to gwt to go up the next 3 weekends anyway without seeing me. and gets to ski all season to. So i flipped shit because she blew me off so bad and not i think it might be over. I lover her so much. Should i end it or try and hold on to it? Please give me some imput im lost and cant htink
 
that's a bummer and all but everybody feels that for the first time at one point or another. just don't get too stressed about it. hang out with your friends, nothing will help you more than that i guarantee it. i know it sounds trite and it doesnt feel like it now but you'll get over it i promise
 
never. ever. let a girl that skis with you go. you might not find another. emphasis on skis "with you" not just can ski
 
You should post this in ladies man cult.

Anyway dude I know it hurts now but you are way better off being single starting college. Not just for hooking up with random chicks, but it is a much better mindset for meeting people and getting new friends. If you have a GF that you are worried about it will mess up your social life in college. Most of the kids I knew with girlfriends failed out because they didn't really want to be there.

I can also say that you will be a completely different person after college, its hard to say who is perfect for you now. Take a step back and gain some perspective on things.

Also rub one out before you start thinking about all this shit.
 
gonna sound like a huge asshole here, but i'm just being honest. your probably in early to mid highschool, you probably haven't been with very many other girls, and now that theres one whose shown you some affection your all over it (correct me if i'm wrong). but heres the truth, you've been with her 4 months, and you only see each other at very most 2 days every week. you two are probably not in love, you think you are because your young. if she's disrespecting you, get over her, theres a lot of other girls just as cute and just as cool, but able to hang out more than once every 3 weeks.
sorry for being blunt, but everyone has that youthful romance that they think is way more serious than it really is. hopefully you aren't trolling lol
 
4 months and you loved her? and you barely even saw her? dont be a bitch, you didnt love her, you just loved the idea of having a chick like you back. jesus christ, even if you saw her every weekend over 4 months thats only 16 times.

you did it wrong broski, next time dont invest so much and it will work out way better for you.
 
Just end it, you'll get over her quick enough. It sounds brutal now but she blew you off in a terrible way. There's no point in having a girlfriend that doesn't care enough to see you at least once a month.

There are other fish in the sea, and it's been said above but do not go into college with a girlfriend, it'll fuck it all up.
 
I agree with this. I am too also in high school and I try my best to not really get into the dating scene. High school girls are just way too damn immature and they don't know how to act. Very rare to find a girl in HS that is down to earth and is not a total fucking idiot. Just don't get to stressed about it.
 
dude i know exactly how you feel. i burnt my bacon today.

egg mcmuffin just aint the same with burnt bacon :'(
 
any relationship during high school/before college usually turns out to be a waste. its good to get out and experience things, hook up, have fun, whatever, but 99% of the time the person you were with in high school you will not be with once you go to college. so dont stress about this now. if it's meant to be, it will happen. if it doesn't, move on so you CAN find that someone. you're young and have ALOT of growing up to do.

and put this in ladies men for god sakes, in nsg youre just asking to get shit on lol
 
haha i sound like i giant fagot. You guys just helped me so much i so much better already. You guys just backed up a buncha points i was thinking of and it really helped. and your right im not in fucking love. Thankyou im just waiting for her to call now to end it
 
dont' stress it too much kid, My GF is currently 6148km away (going to university). If it is meant to work then both of you will start to make concessions with time to be either able to talk to each other or see each other. No matter what we always make time for each other to be able to talk ever day. If they say that they can't make time then that is a lie, its because they won't make time. It all depends on how strong the mutual feelings are and if you guys both really want to make it work. Because from the sounds of things it seems like you are the one putting in all the effort. Relationships are like a 3 legged race and if one person is doing all the work then all you will do is go in circles. You can only take so much of the advice from others because you are young, you will make mistakes and you will learn from them. The best advice that I have ever been given is "Do what YOU think is right, and then you can never make a mistake you will only learn". And this is the advice i leave with you.
 
bingo. you worded how im trying to explain it so well. She can make time she just doesnt try atall. and i am puting in all the effort. Haha. Thank you i feel like 100 percent better already
 
hey man i just went through the same thing with my girl. she lives 2 hours away and we just didnt get to see eachother enough to the point where the bond was broken. you just gotta get over it, even though its not easy. give it time, and youll see the light. sounds lame, but you just gotta let it burn buddy
 
dump her before she dumps you!!!! it will boost your self confidence 200 percent and get you back on track fast! but tap that ass one more time then break it off completely with out any contact

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The first ones always the worst... I thought my life was over when my first real GF of 2 years broke up with me but i got over it and am having a way better time meeting awesome girls all over town.
Side note: never go to college with boy/girl friend it real just fucks the experience up
 
you know what it is to be heartbroken, but what about the difference between now and know? jk
i feel sorry for your heart, but just relax. it's only been 4 months. and at least she is doing something worth while.
 
Lol i have seen so many people on here say they would blow a girl off for skiing and now its switched and your upset. GO SKIING WITH HER!
 
cool, this week i got to find out my (now ex) gf of 2.5 years cheated on me earlier in the week with some fucking douchebag. if only you all knew, shes the biggest hypocrite piece of shit on this earth.
/rant.
 
thats why you cheat first. so when she tells you, you shrug it off, then you fuck up her head for the rest of the day because she tries to wonder why you aren't mad.

also, girls only cheat when they're mad at you for something. although they never tell you why???
 
well we broke up for like a day and she did it to me to "get back at me" but i didnt do shit. and yeah im already hanging with a new chick tomorrow who's DTF hahaha.
 
thats the way man. bitches gotta know that they can't be trifling. and if she had sex that soon after you broke up, then their was probably something going on there with her and that other dude. not talking cheating before that, but dude was probably chattin her up and she was going with it.
 
nah the kids a fucking creepy ass douche, and she told me she jut went off and randomly did it. fuck her, fuck bitches.
 
oh i did dont worry, i pretty much shit on her life to when she tried starting shit at school with me.
 
The above statement is bullshit.

there are TONS of fish in the sea. any type fish you want. trust me, I just turned 27, i have done craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy things for girls before because i loved them. like converting to mormonism (i know right). and shit never works out. dont be crazy for a girl, dont do it. live your life the way you want and there will come a time and place where a girl fits in. go with that. dont try to plan crazy shit, change yourself, or change a bitch, because shit will not work. TRUST ME.

if this girl burned you so hard that you flipped, its not worth it. so what if she shreds? i know shitloads of girls who RIP (i live in salt lake). if a skiing woman is what you want, just be aware of that as you continue dating chicks, and being a skier yourself you will eventually find one that doesnt burn you. this current situation you are in will continue to suck and bother you, but time heals everything. youll feel better. go ski on your own or with you dude friends. dont do anything crazy or irrational. just force yourself to get over it and you will be fine. you are young, so much left in the world for you to discover especially with women.

GOOD LUCK BRO
 
didnt read past the first sentence but im drunk and dont need too... 4 months... and your first heartbreak... you are 14? 15? 16 tops, you might feel that you are heart broken but your not, you'll meet another girl have sex with her and feel the same thing and realise its not love, its lust... you'll realise when your in love and be like damn i guess i was wrong.
 
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