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Bachto

Bachto

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So me and my best friend have been friends since we were 8 so for 10 years (we'll call him Gary). Last year he started dating this girl, we'll call her Lexi. Our other friend (we'll call him bob) recently threw a party and invited me and Gary, but didn't want Lexi to come for whatever reason. his party his choice. So because of that Gary and Lexi didn't come. and Lexi got all mad at Bob for not inviting her. Then when the 3 of us are (me Gary and Bob) hanging out and drinking at a different party Lexi gets mad at Gary for hanging out with Bob. Well I thought it would be a great Idea to take Gary's phone and text her "their my best friends, fuck off". Not my finest moment but non the less it was still true. Lexi almost breaks up with Gary and all that shit. So now Lexi hates me and won't even look at me and often leaves when they go places i'm at. I apologized to Gary for texting Lexi on his phone but I havn't apologized to Lexi because even though what I did was messed up it's still true. Me and Bob have been best friends with Gary for WAY longer then they have been dating.

So what I need your help with is, should I apologize to Lexi just so it will fix everything even though what i said was true? or what?

Also relevant: Lexi also flirts with my brother telling him that if her and Gary weren't dating that she would fuck him.

tl;dr My best friends girlfriend hates me for speaking my mind now bestfriend won't go places with girlfriend if they know i'm there. Girlfriend also openly told my brother she wants to fuck him
 
I have a friend named Gary, but not Bob or Lexi. Wait, fuck, I don't have a friend named Gary, that's just my friend Kerry whom I call Gary. Well, shit, I've gone and fucked a lot up now.

Garbage pail.
 
Thank you! i've tried talking to him about but he just avoids it and is just a girl about the whole thing.
 
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and, yes, apologize. No good will come of her being mad at you in the long run just so you can try and prove a point that doesn't really matter that much in the first place.
 
So like, honestly, three months from now, no one will give a shit. Lexi will have fucked three other dudes in your class and you'll all still be sitting around lighting your farts on fire.
 
Gary seems like a hot head but that's expected. I'd talk to his uncle, I'm willing to bet he's probably a professor or something. He always seems to know what's going on. You'll probably lose a couple fights with Gary but soon you'll be strong enough to beat him. Once you beat Gary and his four other friends a final time you'll get the respect you deserve and Lexi will suck you cock until you are weak in the knees.
 
You're clearly jealous of Lexi, and possibly Gary...how in anyway is her attraction to your brother "relevant"? Because it makes her a "bad girlfriend"? Believe it or not, women in relationships can still be attracted to other people! Weird, right?! What a slut!

I could go line by line and deconstruct your awful post in order to illustrate what a little immature, butthurt twat you're being, but I don't feel like it.

Instead I'll say this:

If you had a dick(brain? both?) you could've had a conversation with Gary about whatever concerns/issues you have with his relationship and/or extended the olive branch to Lexi. How about explain why it's important for you and he to still maintain a friendship that is separate from theirs? Sometimes an upfront convo solves problems before they exist.

Or, even better, grow the fuck up and realize that in the next 5-10 years all of your "best bros" will likely be married with kids and won't have the time of day for you. This is classic shit, man. Don't be the jealous friend. Instead, go get laid, maybe get your own gal because I guarantee you that you don't currently have one given the nature of this post.

Lastly, you had no business grabbing your buddy's phone and sending that bitchmade, passive aggressive text. If you felt it needed to be said, you should've looked her in the face and told her what you thought. You clearly owe her an apology, no debate there, and the longer you put it off, the more of a dipshit you are.

 
You're clearly jealous of Lexi, and possibly Gary...how in anyway is her attraction to your brother "relevant"? Because it makes her a "bad girlfriend"? Believe it or not, women in relationships can still be attracted to other people! Weird, right?! What a slut!

I could go line by line and deconstruct your awful post in order to illustrate what a little immature, butthurt twat you're being, but I don't feel like it.

Instead I'll say this:

If you had a dick(brain? both?) you could've had a conversation with Gary about whatever concerns/issues you have with his relationship and/or extended the olive branch to Lexi. How about explain why it's important for you and he to still maintain a friendship that is separate from theirs? Sometimes an upfront convo solves problems before they exist.

Or, even better, grow the fuck up and realize that in the next 5-10 years all of your "best bros" will likely be married with kids and won't have the time of day for you. This is classic shit, man. Don't be the jealous friend. Instead, go get laid, maybe get your own gal because I guarantee you that you don't currently have one given the nature of this post.

Lastly, you had no business grabbing your buddy's phone and sending that bitchmade, passive aggressive text. If you felt it needed to be said, you should've looked her in the face and told her what you thought. You clearly owe her an apology, no debate there, and the longer you put it off, the more of a dipshit you are.

 
First of all you're probably right about, well actually you are right about everything pretty much. I admit that how I went about telling her she was in the wrong was childish and stupid. Yes i'm going to apologize for the way I went about it. But no I am not going to apologize for saying it because it is true. I also do think her telling my brother she wants to fuck him is relevant because what girl tells her boyfriends best friend she wants to fuck him (me and my brother are twins so therefore both bestfriends with Gary).
 
1. that's some terrible logic you've got there.

2. unless Gary actually wants Lexi to "fuck off" then i'm not sure how you can say that what you texted to her was true.
 
So ... It's relevant, because you're twins and if she wants to fuck your twin, she might really want to fuck you too?

Honey, grow up. High school relationships rarely last, high school friendships tend mean a lot more. You should have just talked to whoeverthefuck about it and left the chick out of it.

The more you try and defend your opinion the more immature you sound. This will all blow over and the quicker you learn to deal with the changing nature of your friendships the easier it will be to handle those changes in the future. One day, you might find a girl who turns into a partner and your best friend. It won't diminish any of the other friendships you have, but the nature of those friendships will change, because your girl became your best friend. And really, that's something that not a lot of people find and it's something that you should celebrate, not be afraid of.
 
ehhh not really what i meant but that's not the point. You guys are right, I'm a fucktard. thats pretty much sums it up. Looks like I have some apologizing to do.
 
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