How many of you have cheated?

Well I actually do believe in forgiveness above all else if a person has learned and improved themselves, but this is an extremely emotionally charged topic and you have to expect people are going to be incredibly polarized on it. After all, we gave up pussy to be able to say this shit, so I'mma fly that flag pretty high y'know?
 
Yeah you always have to be able to forgive. I would totally date and trust a chick that's cheated in the past if I feel she is worth a chance. I still have nothing against someone who won't date a guy/girl based on their past though.

Not being able to say no to pussy or dick shows incredible weakness to me. I can't see how people can be proud of never having cheated. It's not hard to only stick your dick in one vagina so as long as you're happy doing that. If you even feel like you want to actually fuck someone else you shouldn't be in a relationship at all, let alone long enough to actually act on those feeling
 
my ex and her friend firmly believed that watching porn was cheating lol

if you don't want me watching porn satisfy me in bed.
 
Hahhahahaha...

How the fuck can you justify that as cheating. Would love to find a girl that thinks this and get in a nice debate with her.
 
i turned down a threesome in order to remain faithful, so cheating now would be such a step down from a threesome that it could never be worth it.

offer me a foursome with 3 other dudes and i'll consider cheating
 
I've never cheated, and don't really see the point in doing so. I'd rather end the relationship if I wanted to be with some other girl. It's not cool to cheat, you could hurt someone really badly if they found out, but what you don't realize is how much you hurt yourself by doing it.
 
didn't like it either haha

Honestly though I have never done it with a sock haha do people actually do it ?
 
i did it once and after timing it right to get the sock on my dick before finishing which was not easy, i ended up with a sock filled with semen and wondered why the fuck i had done that and how on earth it could be easier and less gross than using tissues. also i had to walk around with jizz in my sock for the rest of the day because you're not gonna not wear a perfectly good sock!
 
Yeah, I did it into a sock a few times and it's just not as good as tissues, plus it's not as good for cleaning up the little bit that comes our a few minutes after.
 
The golden rule I believe is "It's only cheating if it's a humman" everything else is fair game.
 
Ok, so step one... Hold the sock like a tissue. Step two... Jizz on it.

Rinse. Repeat. Go green. Stop jizzing on tissues. Use females, towels, socks, skiierman's mom's curtains, the vacuum of space, etc.

No steeze... Epic user error factor hahaha
 
I've got little faith that you've never wronged somebody, and even less interest in your opinion on the subject. After all, it's very subjective. Additionally, I don't feel shitty at all. At the time I did sure, but certainly no longer.

It's easy to come into to a thread like this one and make generalizations and try to make blanket statements that apply to every single person, but that doesn't mean you're correct. And it certainly doesn't make you the end all be all authority on the subject.

I've already wasted to much time addressing your post. ....going off on tangents and "what-if's" and insulting people while you're at it... You're absolutely entitled to your opinion and to having passionate beliefs on the subject, but keep your points based in reality.
 
Well it is absolutely a personal growth issue first and foremost. As long as you can take any negative behavior and turn it around that is good in my book. Doesn't mean nobody can bring up the issues they have with the initial act though right? It's a summer NSG thread dood, don't take it too personal :)
 
never cheated on anyone. i've never even thought about it. i mean yeah everyone thinks about sex and shit all the time but i've never thought about actually cheating on someone. however, i am on technopotamuses side of the argument in that it's not always the "once a cheater, always a cheater" case. people do stupid things and some people realize it, others don't. not everybody that has cheated won't do it again, and not everybody will. i think people are worth a second chance.
 
Same here. Worst mistake of my life. I admitted it to her and she wouldn't have it, which is good because all I did was hurt her. It made me realize I fell in love with her though, which hurt me more.
 
a semi-serious girlfriend in college cheated on me with her ex...it was one of the best things that happened to me in college since it helped me learn a lot about relationships and made me single...then I met the beautiful woman that eventually became my wife
 
Yeah, I did... for a really fucking complicated and like all reasons - immature reason... which was that She had basically cheated on me, then left me for the guy, then I sorta stupidly took her back when he didn't want her for anything else than just a fuck'n'go,

Thing is, she was still very distraught over the guy who she cheated on me with, and subsequently left me for... for like the next few months. Which was pretty god damn obnoxious.

I felt wronged basically the whole time, and so fucking used. But I wanted to be with her so bad I didn't really care I guess.

So I cheated on her. Because she didn't seem to really WANT to be with me, and seemingly was only was with me because the other guy didn't want her. But I also cared about her so much, that I wanted her to be happy, and me being in her life made her happy. On top of that, she was going through some shitty stuff. If I had left her, it would have just stacked more shit on the pile of 'woe is me' that she was going through at the time I suppose.

Do I regret it? Kinda... yeah... but now after writing this, I guess if there was ever a position where cheating was morally 'okay' in my brain, this was it.

Pretty complicated and stupid situation, really.
 
don't feel so bad, i did almost the same thing. he never cheated. It was more of an emotional betrayal, where he was so in love with my friend that he had to break up with me. he regretted it and told me that he didnt have feelings for her so we got back together. although i shouldve saw the signs, he never really cared about me.
 
yeah i have... i was just really mad at my boyfriend. we ended up breaking up 3 days after i cheated. we're still really good friends but he has no idea i cheated.
 
he lived in another state and any time we talked all he talked about was his problems.. i saw him for a week once a month at the most.
 
...getting down voted for providing a the exact sort of response OP was looking for. NS get off your high horse, everyone here already knows cheating is bad, you don't have to take away magical internet points to remind us of that.
 
because i liked him and when i saw him we had a good time. His friends just didn't like me and said something that made me freak out and ignore me for a few days... i ended up going to a party and sleeping with a guy i had a crush on when i was littler... but 3 days after i cheated my boyfriend broke up with me because he needed to deal with his own life. the guy i cheated on him with was the guy i was with for the past year.
 
This is just such bullshit. Can't believe people try to come up with excuses for cheating
 
not saying it was right... makes sense to me, not a good reason... I wouldn't do it again, because if i were to be in a relationship again it would be with someone i care enough about that they are all i want to be with.
 
if my girlfriend cheated on me as a backlash for not liking something my friends did i would literally kill her and bury her in her own front yard
 
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