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scarroll

scarroll

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Hey, I am in a bit of a sticky wicket. There is this girls who I like and I am pretty shure she will say yes if I ask her out. I was planing to ask it to her face yesterday because we were hanging out all day. But sadly I never found the right time and didn't have the balls. Now I am in trouble, she is probobly expecting me to ask her out and she is probobly confused about why I didn't ask her yesterday. I am afraid if I wait until we hang out on friday that would be to long so how lame is asking someone out in a text message? Should I just call her? And finally I don't really know what to say (Hi will you go out with me sounds bad)
 
^ HAHA true.

what do you mean by ask out? like to be your gf or just to go on a date. the latter is easy man.

"hey i had a good time with you the other day. would you like to go to on friday?"
 
Heh the former. I know it's not exactly 'e-cool' to ask on a forum but I don't want to mess this up. The beg question in what to say and if it wrong to ask in a text.
 
its kind of corny. But definatly talk to her by phone or text, tell her you had a good time, but wait to ask her out. Phone is a better option if you can't wait tho
 
Sorry man, it was the first thing that popped into my head. I was like, "woah, I must sow the world what a superior being I am!"

It basically all went downhill from there.
 
So. Heres my advice. Don't text her. Just don't do it because its not super cool. Wait until Friday and make it super special like bring her flowers or something special and plan a nice real date like out to dinner at a nice restuarant and say "Ive had so much fun hanging out with you lately, and I would love nothing more than for you to be my girlfriend. I was going to ask you out earlier, but I wanted everything to be perfect." Trust me, a little effort goes a LOOONG ways.
 
That sounds awsome it's just thats not something she would dig. We have been friends for a while and I know thats not something she likes. Someone actually did that to her once and she just thought it was weird. That and I'm only 15 so whatever that has to do with anything. I think I;m going to call her a little later and ask her. It's not like no one (her included) know I'm going to asker her out. Infact the other day the sent me a text that said "What are we" and some weird shit like that. The baisicly set it up for me to ask her but I didn't want to ask in a text and when I called her I didn't have the balls. I guess I just keep procrastinating but I;m going to call tonight. I tell you how it goes.
 
Word. Definitely go for something she would be more apt to respond to. I just threw that ides out because a lot of girls would love that. And if shes hinting for it, then its probably best to do it ASAP and show that you're not just ignoring her.
 
ok she hinted to u to ask her out, just go up to her on friday and ask if she wants to go out to eat or see a movie. she'll be down.
 
umm call her up and just be like i have to see you before friday, lets do somethin tomorrow...and if you aren't 16 you better find a way to her damn house. and then ask her then...that way on friday you guys can bone cause it will be your second "date"
 
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