You make complete sense.
Some people just don't prioritize sex like others. Everyone's different, INCLUDING THEIR SEX DRIVES.
But in all honesty, don't rule out sex/makingout/whatever. If it happens, it happens. If you like it then go for it (but be safe), and if it doesn't, then she's not "the one". Just don't throw away something that might be on an irrational bet.
I had a friend who was HARDCORE anti-sex/drugs/booze, and now because of her boyfriend and college she comes across as a pothead. It's sort of sad, but I'm glad she experienced it. Now she understands what it's all about. If I were her, I'd probably feel like a hypocrite, but hey, people change, and so do their ideas and opinions.
So while you're young, live it up. You can be religious/have morals and still have fun. With caution and common sense, alcohol and some forms of sexual gratification don't necessarily mean you violated God, or anything like that (if religion is the reasoning behind this, I didn't read the whole thread). I know lots of people who are religious (including myself) who enjoy alcohol and partying. Just cause I drink it doesn't make me a bad person. Just do what feels right.