Family Problems.

Jib-Ninja

Jib-Ninja

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Alright, so my mom has been seeing this douche bag Tom for like..8 years now, and they arnt married yet..and my mom doesnt plan on marrying him. He is the reason my mom and dad split up,my mom cheated on my dad with Tom. And my whole dads side of the family hates this douche bag, he is always talking shit about my dad and my dad the same, and Tom tried to start a fight with my older brother once. He is just an overall douche bag. All he does is sit on the couch and drink his beers and argues with my mom..my mom is just staying with him because of his money. The only plus about my mom being with him for me is that i get to steal his beers out of the fridge. I used to be cool with him until like, 2 years ago...he was talking shit about me and i called him a bitch and i told him i was gonna kick his ass, and he wouldnt fight me *Obviously because i was just a cocky 15 year old at the time* but he is still a bitch. And since then i havnt said one word to him. He is always talking shit about me to my mom and calling me worthless and just downgrading me. I always tell my mom to leave this douchebag but she doesnt listen. HOW CAN I TAKE CARE OF THIS PROBLEM?!??!?! Kill the douchebag? lol i dunno what to do.
 
hate to say it, but your moms an adult and makes her own decisions. theres probably a reason behind her being with him, even if it is his money. the best thing to do is to get her away from tom and have a serious adult conversation about why you think she should leave him. think up all the pros and cons about leaving him and tell her them in a mature and organized way. whatever you do, dont stoop to his level and reduce yourself to kicking and screaming. stay calm and collected and explain yourself and hope that she understands.
 
Some good advice, but that situation is definitely fucked. no one should have to deal with that. Just keep looking forward to moving out.
 
yeah, problem is, your mom's gonna do what she wants to do.having problems with my own mom, the sad part is you have to realize that there is nothing you can do to change your parents. she might see the light one day, or she might not. my mom dated an asshole once and he tried to start a fight with all of us, and she broke up with him the next day. it's a lot harder to beak up after 8 years. i don't know, if you really want to, you can try and sabotage it on her part, but that's just low. you should try talking to the guy in a civilized way and tell your mom how you feel. that's about all you can do, but you can't expect your mom to change, just like you wouldn't for her. sorry dude.
 
This guy is not "civilized" in any way. He is seriously drunk from the time he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep. I have no idea how he got so rich because the guy seriously barley knows how to use the TV remote..and our DVD player was broke one time so he started hitting the top of it like a caveman thinking that would fix it. There is no sitting down and talking with him. And my mom has a trait where she just absolutely loves to argue, if i mentioned the cons about him she would bring up the cons about me..but i guess its worth a try talking to my mom.
 
sit down with your mom and this douchbag guy and tell them how you feel when you hear him saying negative things about you. tell them how it is affecting you when you hear him say things like you are worthless etc. once you have done this, let them voice their concerns about your behaviour (if you behave well then no need) ... then together work proactively & maturely on changing the way that your relationship is with you mom and the dbag ... you would be surprised at how well an honest, mature & heartfelt conversation can change a situation
 
Well its not just that he is a drunk that makes him a bad person..my dad said even before he started drinking during all hours of the day he was just as pathetic as he is now. And my relationship with my momis pretty decent i guess, i can tell her about the shit going on in my life...except recently it has been a little rough because of all the trouble i have been getting into.
 
try sticking out of trouble, even though we all know how fun it is...it can help damage your relationship with your mom, since the step guy seems like the manipulative blackmailer type.besides, it's better for you in the long run not to end up like either of them.
 
This.
Personally, I would beat the shit out of this Tom guy the next time he does something deliberately agitating you, but thats probably the most immature thing you could do, and it wouldn't solve any problems.
 
or him...

no.

go live with your dad if thats an option... If i remember correctly you were 15 two years ago? so... just wait it out.. you'll be gone in less then a year
 
just mess with the guy like deflate his tires on his car or drain or take all of his beer and put it in random places. or you could put everything that he puts down three inches to the left to make him get hella paranoid. none of these thing would help you but it would just be funny to do.
 
Uhmm, living with my dad really isnt an option because he lives out in the middle of nowhere about an hour from where i live and an hour and 15 mins from my current school. And the school up where he lives is full of rednecks and people who live in trailers. Definetly dont want to move there. But the messing with him sounds really good lol...i think i might let out all the air in his tires.
 
You beat me too it! Just do everything you can to make this guys life a living hell, but without ever admitting to doing any of it. Open all his beers and take a gulp out of everyone. Draw cocks on his car, take the laces out of his shoes, and just start taking random shit of his and throwing it out. Eventually he'll go crazy. Trust me, dewie did it in malcolm in the middle.
 
DO NOT FIGHT HIM. When I was 16 my mom was dating a guy named Tom (Ironic?}. One night I came home drunk, and I over heard him talking about how I was going nowhere because all I did was ski. I walked into the kitchen and started arguing with him. He said something about how I was just like my dad and I'm not "worth two shits". My dad is the consul of Norway for the entire west coast mind you. So I got mad and poured his beer on him, he slapped me, and my mom began to cry so I took his glass and smashed it on his head. He tackled me, and I am much bigger than he was, so we started fighting. I ended up getting on top of him and i started hitting him in the head with a baseball. Turns out my Mom called the police and I ended up getting arrested for aggravated assault. I've spent the last 2 years in prison . I spent my 17th and 18th birthdays in state prisons. I got out on November 19th. I missed out on some of the best years of my life. Just talk to your Mom, or move in with your Dad. Do yourself a favor.

 
o man. that sucks. +vibes here.

what punishment did the Tom doucher get?

and for u, also try ladies men cult like others before said...
 
LM is a fantastic cult for genuine advice...you won't get typical NSG responses in there. Its incredibly productive and it actually helps. NSG is just not a place you go for personal issues.
 
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i was arrested, charged with aggravated assault

"yo clancy, we got him", but it wasnt my fault!

nevertheless, dont mean to bust your bubble,

but girls of the world aint nothin but trouble!

so next time a girl gives you the play,

just remember my rhyme and get the hell away!!
 
i assume there is a local getto near you soo.. first drive into the getto then look for the scariest looking black man you can find. Then assuming your white you introduce your self as Chuck Norris . If he does not run, your looking at one of the bravest negro the world has ever seen, maby even brave enough to get a job. At this point you can be sure that he carries a few brick of cocaine on him at all times. Now if you really were Chuck Norris you would just kick his ass and take them bricks, but remind your self that you are indeed not Chuck Norris..you will get your ass kicked. Now you ask him for a kilo of cocaine. Of course since your Chuck Norris he will give you a good deal just for not kicking his ass. Once you have obtained them bricks. Your goning to steel your dads keys and hide the bricks in his trunk, once returing the keys your then going to call the police. Then pop a bottle of cristal and watch the fire works..your dads going to be gone for a long time.
 
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