My dad came to America with $400 in his pocket and his new wife (my mom) still in poland, he spent the next 2 years getting a job, car and home. Eventually my mom moved to the states, my dad found out she picked up smoking while he was gone, immediately made her quit.They both received citizenship in some sketchy way. They had a small place in the city and some shitty car for a while. Eventually they stepped it up and bought another house in the city, and then they had my sister. They didnt like the city so they moved to the burbs, then I was born. I was raised there till the end of 5th grade, when we moved 5 minutes away into another burb house, but also it was even bigger. But the house was old as shit, and my dad spent 3 years doing a complete renovation of the entire house, every fucking room, by himself, by hand. Now our house honestly looks like it could be out of a Good Living magazine. Last year his brother died of lung cancer, all my families relatives live in Poland.
Throughout all this my dad and mom both got good jobs, neither of them had a real college education, yet my mom has a job as a government accountant and my dad is a production plant manager. My mom is ok at english, my dad can only get his point across and thats about it. My family travels to places like Italy, Poland, Morocco, Spain etc. yearly and also my dad and I almost always go to a place like Yosemite or RM National Park to go hiking/backpacking. Ski trips every year in the winter. Traveling is huge for my family. My sister just graduated from U of I and I am currently a freshman there, not a cheap school, but our parents are helping us pay for it.
My dad has seriously taught me everything valuable I know, he has showed me the value of hard work, love, commitment and honor.
Yet Im still a fucking prick to him a bunch, but I guess thats what happens while were young.
I love you dad, youre the greatest father anyone could ask for and I'm lucky to have you.