Crippling relationships

tripnip

tripnip

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Story time so i have been dating this girl for a few months and we ave just been getting in fight after fight shes been acting crazy. How do you know when to call it quits?
 
when you make a thread on the internet wondering when its time to call it quits...

dont waste your time if its not 100% what you want 100% of the time.
 
So by crippling relationship do you mean that she hit you in the kneecaps with a baseball bat?

If thats the case Id definitely say its time to wrap it up.
 
well, when you're getting in fight after fight with a crazy person...that'd be a good time to call it off
 
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when you realize youre unhappy. people don't change, and the moment you realize it's pointless to continue to try to fix things when it isn't doing anything, you can move forward.

don't get trapped just because you've built an attachment that's too tough to break. if you're unhappy, you owe it to yourself to cut her loose, as tough as that might be right now. in the long run, it'll be worth it.
 
So much this... You really need to look to the internet for relationship help? Come on dude you should solve that yourself. What will you do when you're not in access of NS
 
you will fight in all relationships, it's inevitable. try living with someone. the difference is weather or not your are still consitantly happy (and also getting some).
 
you will have dry spells too in a long term relationship. I don't have the secret to making relationships work longer than a few years (working on 4-5ish here) but I can tell you that you will go sexless for small periods of time every once and a while. Seems like the secret so far is just to tough most things out with the best mood you can, as its usually not that bad...We're talking about serious adult relationships here too.
 
key word from my post was consistently. dry spells are unavoidable, i agree. it's all about how you bounce back from the bad. woman go crazy quite often, this is also unavoidable. in these situations it's best to keep your mouth shut and listen.
 
Yes, most couples, if together long enough, have dry spells. But I'm still not convinced that it's unavoidable. Sometimes guys gotta up the romance when they start to feel comfortable and begin slacking in the relationship.

Same goes for girls, too. Don't jump all over my shit. But usually the female is more quick to feel unappreciated or taken for granted.
 
in my experiences its the other way around

the men usually feel under-appreciated if they are the main source of income for the family.
 
oh, well-- i was speaking mainly about younger unmarried couples. Like...not-yet-joined-income couples.
 
When the positives outweigh the negatives you've got to ask yourself if they will ever really change and start treating you the way you want to be treated. If the answer is no, then go. You can't blame people for being who they are, so just try to recognize it asap, be realistic and figure out whether it can work for you.
 
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