Taos- Amazing terrain, decent snow (we can get big dumps but usually is like 8-10inches at a time), Great vibe and a decent park. I strongly recommend getting a season pass here. The powder lasts for days at a time if you know where to go. The most difficult terrain is hike only however there is still some pretty extreme terrain you can access by lift
Purgatory aka durango- pretty nice parks, no real sustained steeps, above average snowfall, lots of gapers.
Wolf Creek- SO MUCH POW, great steeps although they are interrupted by periods of flat terrrain, highly recommend kniferidge and alberta peak area. They also have some pretty good food. The pow here lasts for weeks in some spots especially when all of the gaper texans are staying on the groomed side of the mountain.
Telluride- Similar to taos but bigger with better terrain parks. The hike to terrain is amazing especially if palmyra peak is open.
If you ONLY want park in NM angel fire has a good park.
Crested butte- basically the same as Taos and Telluride, You must ski the high lift and north face lift here and also banana funnel.
All of these resorts are rarely crowded and get the driest powder on the continent that takes a long time to be tracked out. Ice is a rarity because of northern exposure for these resorts. Telluride, Taos, and Purg's season snowfall is usually between 250" and 350" with a couple record high and low snow years mixed in. Wolf Creek is usually between 400" and 450" a year but I've seen years there where they have gotten 700"+
Best time to ski is usually late Jan-April so the good stuff can get covered.
One more thing-If you live in ABQ DO NOT SKI SANDIA PEAK UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES