in college u just wrap it up and dont go down on a girl u dont know or u think is uber slutty. my buddy got gonorrhea last year, thats the last time he'll fuck a chick he doesn't know without a rubber hahah
Doesn't matter what she's done before. She could have had sex twenty times and have nothing, or had sex twice and have HIV. You cannot tell if someone has an STD by how many times she has had sex.
It's a total personal choice. If you don't want to know... don't ask. Hopefully if she has something you should know about (disease, whatever) she'll be kind enough to tell you.
In my case, I didn't need to worry about that because I was my girlfriends first boyfriend. Here is some advice from me. If you don't really care than don't ask because it will make things awkward for a bit. However, with some guys, they think it's bad to ask and they end up sitting there wondering what happened until it drives them mad. If you want to ask then ask, don't let it bother you though, because if she really cares about you then all of that other stuff doesn't matter.
I'm personally super open about that stuff. I told my ex everything he ever asked about. If he wants to know, then sure, I have no problem telling, sometimes I just give up the information in conversations with other friends around (I tend to talk about that stuff a lot with certain friends).
If you don't care to know, then it doesn't matter. If you actually want to know, then ask her. You have the right to if your relationship is going to involve sexual activity. It's a safety precaution as well as could help you know what you're dealing with.
dude its cool to know how expierenced she is, to know how good she is. If she has only been with a couple guys she prolly wont be that good. So for your sake you want to know for 1. Diseases, and 2. how good she will be
yeah you can. the herpes virus is the same as a cold sore. what happens is that if you go down there it can mutate and it will transfer to your face and it will be 100 times worse then a cold sore. Then if you have a cold sore and you go down on her you can give her herpes. same thing just reversed it transfers and all that jazz