I wrote this in another thread, but it seems to apply here too....
lets compare...
spend $20197568 on new setups/outfits VS. grab your carhartts and texas longhorns coat.
head over to the park and check your outfit for max style VS. stumble upon the park and exclaim "holy shit, check this out!!"
chill at the top of the park and hate on styles / gapers VS. stand at
the top of the park and gather the courage to ski way outside their
ability and hit the jumps.
silently make sure everyone is watching, hit the kicker, come up a bit
short on the rotation (because your concern was style, not spin to win)
and slam VS. yell "HEY YA'LL WATCH THIS!", hit the kicker in a "pizza
wedge" style approach, land about 2/3 of the way across the deck and
slam.
clean yourself up, endure unbearable shame at the fact that you crashed
and never speak of it again VS. clean yourself up, high five your
buddies, and re-live that badass moment for the rest of spring break.
close out the day by making sure your pants fall just right over your
boots for the walk to the parking lot VS. taking shots out of a shot
ski (altitude and cost be damned), while wearing rear-entry boots
completely opened up and loudly recounting the day's extreme
experiences.
Fun is first, everything else is showing off. Gapers kill on the
first, and often rule both. It's important for you and me to make sure
we can get the first part, before worrying about the second.
PS. - if gapers are being "unsafe" (i.e. sitting on landings, cutting people off...) kindly confront them and explain what they should (and should not) do. point them to the mini park if applicable. every time i've done this it's been met really well and they were happy to understand. a swearing tirade won't achieve the same result. try it.