jay you put too much emphasis on style. i have plenty of friends with no fashion sense and they get laid by hot chicks all the time. besides, the guy on the left looks like he's the only one who's not a virgin.
The guy on the left is the I was talking about. He pulls off the black on black well and the flower is the perfect amout of contrast. Style is everything my friend. Don't get me wrong, I love my jeans or jogging pants and hoodies, but if you're gonna do something, do it right. If you're dressing up semi-formal, then I think style is everything. The whole point of the evening is about the clothes you're wearing.